Who Get's Hurt The Most?

The liar when he get realised and ofcourse we cant deny that the one being lied to will not be hurted.

good topic. to me at first when the lie begin i think the person whos being lied to get hurt the most but afterwards when the lie is found out it the person who lied because the person or people he lied to. will lose that person or people trust.

I think Liar gets more hurt. As once the person he lied to knows the truth the lied to person may get hurt but will recover and even move on. For liar lies keep following him around all the time and when he is alone and quite they haunt him. Our bad deeds never leave us they come back to make us feel guilty all over again and again. So a liar gets hurt more. More than any person he has ever lied to he at first lives in the fear of being found out once found out he lives with the guilt forever.

I think the one lying gets hurt the MOST, though both are hurt, because those who are lied to have no control over the situation.

For me its the liar is the one get hurt most, coz its the lier who will suffer the consequences.There is a saying "You will harvest what u've planted". So liar will lose other peoples trust and friendship when people find out he lied to them. The time will come if a liar feel that no one trust on him...even if he is saying the truth...thats the time "liar hurts the most"

I think out of both of these the person who is being lied to is the one who gets hurt the most. They are there just trying their best to trust their instincts and be faithful to whomever they are with. I don't think the liar gets hurt at all until they go ahead and try to tell the truth. I think to lie to anyone you have to have a completely absent conscience and not care about the person very much to go ahead and start lying to them. If there's one thing that I know, that is: Karma will come around and bite them in the butt for all that they have done. There is nothing right in lying to someone you care about!! You'd better think twice about lying about anything... I'd never do that to someone I cared about, no matter how much I had to "hide". I think to truly believe in love in the first place you must promise to each other to be completely honest with each other. Upon doing that you must not go back on your word and always stick to your word. At least, that's what I look for in a gentleman. I've been on the receiving end of some lies. There have been times where I've wanted to just punch the liar in the face or scream at him/her until I was all cried out and there was no disappointment left, just a feeling of being more at peace in the world. I don't freely accept liars into my life and I like to think my other half is being honest with me even though he's had problems with that in the past. I wish there was a way to just tell kids and to keep reminding them that honesty is better than lying about anything, no matter how small. I think it's easier to tell the truth in the long run. At the same time I think it's just as easy to spot a liar or a fake a mile away. I've learned how to do this myself and I think it helps me to realize who the good people are from the bad. So, in conclusion, I think it's the person being lied to that ends up getting hurt. The person who is the liar just completely deserves no respect or trust until they can change their ways. Thanks for allowing me to share! xx

I think both get hurt. But the one who get hurt the most was te one being lied at.

of course the one being lied to.

the liar,because it hurts to lie ,,feeling sorry for the person you lied to and knowing you will pay eventually for your lies here on earth and biblicaly speaking too!!!!!

its the liar, in the begining it is the person who is being lied to , but you cant escape after lying..

Both can get hurt. The person being lied to suffers the most, because trust is lost, and every person (man or women)they meet will have to pay for their mistakes(lies). It will be so hard for them to trust again. The person that is doing the lying will suffer in the long run because what goes around comes around and all the lies they told will resurface.

The liar, if he is doing that to protect his friend from loss of confidence/motivation due to the brutal truth may hurt the most. But generally, it is the person being lied to who is hurt more, especially in cases of frauds and scams.

The one getting lied to gets hurt first but then there is always KARMA on the liar!!

of course the liar coz he knws da truth

I would say the one being lied to gets hurt the most. They lose faith in trust because of it. How exactly does the liar get hurt?

obviously the other person get more hurt when he knows tht u r did lie to him its a matter of trust. it surely means tht u didnt trust him so u did lie.

i've been both. i think a liar gets more hurt than the person lied to(only if both are very close). i've personally experienced it. stil i havn't disclose my lie to my best friend for which sometimes i hate myself.:( even i've thought of killing myself at times.. :( its been eating me for months.

The person who is being lied to gets hurt the most. Take for instance if I was in a long term and loving relationship that ended suddenly because of something that my partner hid from me. I find out what was going on and confronted him. Instead of telling me the truth...he lied to me. It would hurt me drastically because this is someone I gave my all to, whom I loved and trusted for so long. How can anyone in their right mind find the guts to lie to someone they love?

I think both parties are equally hurt, both lose in the trust department, the one lying can't be trusted and the lied can't trust -- and relationships without trust are very good relationship -- everyone loses!!

The one being lied to gets hurt the most. It is very painful to find out that the one you love or trust in your life has been deceiving you... especially matters of the heart or involving your commitment to each other. Been there, been through that, and I know I was the one that was the most hurt.