Do you have a secret that is so bad you will take it to the grave with you?
By 34momma
@34momma (13882)
United States
21 responses
@Darkwing (21583)
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5 Jan 07
I carried a secret around with me for over forty years, and eventually, I confided in my younger sister. I knew she would listen, wouldn't judge and would hold my secret safe.
I felt a lot better to have somebody to share this secret, somebody that I could trust.
I would also confide in my man and my best Sis, in America. I know a secret would be safe with all these people. No need to carry it to the grave with you.
@Sheeniepie (873)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
hi there..
yes indeed i still got some secrets... sorry but i can't share it to you, or everyone out there^_^
i guess it would still take sometime before i can finally bring it out even to my husband....
well you know the saying.. WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW WON'T HURT YOU... well that's one of my motto's for now wahhaa..
well of course God knows me deep down inside and he know's my heart..
thanks ^_^
@nancygibson (3736)
• France
6 Jan 07
No, I tell my husband everything. I used to get very depressed but once I started telling him every last detail of my life so that he could undertstand why I got that way things got a lot better and I found I could cope much more easily
@hedonistic (149)
• India
19 Jan 07
I don't think I have any such secret which I would like to carry with me to grave.
But as life is long and I am still too young to comment on such stuff may be someday I have a secret which I would not want to disclose to anyone.
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@pestalozzi (96)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
i'd prefer my dear cousin, she's my bestfriend. when i talk to her she'd listen to me without giving any comment. i've been sharing to her a lot of my secrets. i've trusted her since we were kids.
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
5 Jan 07
No at least one person somewhere or another knows all my secrets. My hubby knows them all. I don't believe in keeping anything from him
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
19 Jan 07
I have a secret but its bad, but not that bad.I have shared this secret with anyone.I personally think its confidential and dont want anyone to know about it.
@blondegirl1975 (4298)
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5 Jan 07
no, i did have i carried this secret around with me for a long time since my child hood but i eventually told my parents last year, i think that you have something really series you should tell someone about it because if you dont it can chew away at you, in my case i was always carefull and scared that my parents would find out before i would have got the chance to tell them
@SunlightSwoon (1060)
• United States
6 Jan 07
If you do have a dark secret...than keep it secret...I don't
believe their are many people that can refrain from 'just
telling one other person'. And since you can never really know
just how reliable another person is or just how ironclad that individuals resolve is...don't share...SS
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@iheartducks (343)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I don't have an secrets that I keep from everyone - by boyfriend and my best friends know just about everything there is to know about me.
Do you have a secret you are going to take to your grave with you??
@abhiquest (579)
• India
19 Jan 07
None. I feel there shouldn't be one. I believe its a sign of self confidence and confidence in others. You live a much stress free life this way and persons around you believe every word of what you say.
You can never be your own self with these secrets around you and they seem to take a lot of your attention and focus away from task at hand. Have someone around as an alterego, someone with whom you can share your thoughts and seek guidance. At times you are not the best person around to take decisions concerning your life.
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@tessie (50)
• Nigeria
19 Jan 07
I rather be judge than take a bad secret to my grave. I will expose it anytime as far as the secret is bad.
@superbren (856)
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23 Jan 07
i know a secret . it is someone elses secret but it affects me. i need to get help with it but i dont trust anyone enough to tell them .i am putting off getting the advice but the secret is not going away.i have considered going to a counsellor but can they tell anyone.
@Kaldonya (277)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I suppose once you share it, then it's no longer a secret. I did/do have something that I would've taken to the grave with me, but because it directly involves another individual, then I needed to tell someone. So my husband, sister and best friend knows. Other than that, noone will ever find out.