What do you find to be the most appealing thing about your mate?

January 6, 2007 10:32am CST
Me, I think it is his ability to deeply, analyze any situation before he draws his conclusion. I love that, not closed minded at all. He can't be to put up with me, LOL. What about you? WARNING !!!BTW I read and rate each post but may not be able to respond to all. Also do NOT leave a “yes” or “no” answer (that is against Mylot rules), I will give a “-“ and report you, as I ask ALL to do so, when seeing a post like that. Thanks to all in advance!!!!
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
6 Jan 07
Wow! You could have been talking about me there! That's what a lot of people like (or sometimes dislike) about me too. Anyway, what I like in a 'mate' (as you put it). Is also open-mindedness, wit, culture, and the ability to relax. I need someone who can quote Saint John Perse, as well as tell me silly blonde jokes. Now, that's for the mind part. You didn't want to know about anything more physical, did you? ;)
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6 Jan 07
See Thomas it becomes more and more clear why you and I get along so well!
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@rsp9098 (755)
• India
6 Jan 07
my bf understands me very well!he knows what to do to make me feel happy and comfortable!i am a lucky gal as i hav such an understanding guy!
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@malcido (422)
• United States
6 Jan 07
There are so many things; my husband and I dated for a long time before marrying and will soon have our 12th wedding anniversary! He is kind, thoughtful, and really tries to communicate with me--even when he isn't very happy with me! Physically, I love his lips ;) His mind is pretty wonderful too! He's a wonderful friend because of the things mentioned above and he can chat intelligently about just about anything.
• Nigeria
6 Jan 07
what i do find the most appealing about my mate just has to be her eyes whenever i look into her eyes i just feel like i own the world she has the most sexy eyes
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I like that she is funny and always seems to have good advice. Being cute too is just a plus. :)
• United States
6 Jan 07
I think what I was most drawn to...was his strong connection to his family...at the time I thought that was one of many very necessary ingredients needed in building a strong and enduring relationship...SS
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@treblem (316)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
i like my partner to be loving and thoughtful, kind and especially "macho". also, broadminded is a plus factor.
@123456_ (1052)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
ive got no mate so far but i hope in the future i'll find one whos sincere and honest. nothing can beat those qualities promis. iv tried the goodlooking ones but sincerity really counts.
@Crazydoc (57)
• India
7 Jan 07
HER EYES........HER SMILE........HER HAIR
• India
7 Jan 07
For me,its his determination!! I love the way he handles ,each and every situation in a calm and composed manner!! And the way he has inscribed all this quality in me!! I am more patient,now!
@plantit1 (297)
• United States
7 Jan 07
He lets me be me. Does not try to control or change me in anyway.
@veeraj (56)
• India
7 Jan 07
wat makes me appealing is dat honesty,belief,and last but not the least the looks...
@ssnehaa (34)
• India
7 Jan 07
I will find compassion and kindness
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
20 Jan 07
well i think that i love the way my boyfriend sees life. he is such a happy go lucky person and he doesnt dwell in problems and bad things. i also love the way he smiles and just sit there and talk about things.
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
7 Jan 07
It his intellect which is most appealing.
• United States
6 Jan 07
I don't have one anymore I've been wrong three times already. LOL