do you believe in marriage ? would you marry someone you love ?
By Nglentasha
@Nglentasha (532)
January 6, 2007 11:28am CST
hi everyone do you believe in getting married, some couples say they dont believe in getting married because they already live together as if they were married any way so dont see the point.
my opinion is yes i do believe in marriage as you are showing infront of others you are commited to each other and the wife usually takes the husbands surname officially, getting married in my eyes proves you are commited to one and anotehr it is also romantic and somethink that will stay special in your memorys forever, whats your opinion on this? would like to hear your opinions.
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@deecosmos (83)
• India
6 Jan 07
I DO BELEIVE in institution of marriage..marriage is just the name given to one of the law of nature wherein two people have their union to share rest of their lives..its better to choose someone whom you love to share a space with you..i strongly believe that love is the only thing which sets any marriage rolling..
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@jayaramayodhya (109)
• India
6 Jan 07
ya i believe in marriage... it provides proper bond to the 2.....i really marry the one i loveeeeee......
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
6 Jan 07
Yes...I do believe in marriage. I am in a similar situation..where my boyfriend doesn't see the need...but I do. I feel like we are living in sin..right now...or at least that is the way it feels to me. He wants to wait until we are more financially stable...but I also don;t want to wait forever...
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@myfriendz (1226)
• India
6 Jan 07
i belive in marriages it only stays good if u marry some one u love its no good married to a person u never like and live together thinking u love each other its just feels like hell when some one live in such a ways i think itz better of married to a person u love or some one who loves u than a compromise any how all the best 4 ur future be wise take good decisions in ur carrier
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@fliffy555 (1044)
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6 Jan 07
yes i believe in getting married!! although i believe it should be a well thought out deal as i have noticed that marriage tends to spoil the relationship.... my friends got married after being together for 2 months (they had known each other for like a year) and she changed and got really bossy after the wedding.... we found out she was only after his money so that has kind of put me off marriage but i do love my fella and will marry him one day. i do believe that it means you are commited to each other and is very romantic. depending on what else happens depends on whether it will remain in your memories i think if children come along they would be more of a memory to remain with you forever. x
@Nglentasha (532)
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6 Jan 07
hi thankyou all for your comments there is alot
of great and interesting messages on here its seem we all have similar opinions on here which is good to know.
i have enjoyed reading them all.
@jillybeans (536)
• United States
7 Jan 07
I do believe in marriage, although I dont think many people take it seriously nowadays, we have been married for almost 15 yrs and he asked me to marry him after just one date. Yes I took his surname.
@18111983 (66)
• Bangladesh
7 Jan 07
hihihihi.i think u must be surprized that whu i am laughing.u believe in marriage & i did too.i also got married someone that i loved.i have done everything for him.i respect him.i have given my entire life to him.but now i think he doesnt deserve me,now love, marriage, feelings is only word for me.now i think no one should get married because maximum guys think that wife is their responsibilities & their fixed asset.they can do with their whatever he wants because wife cant leave him.lol.anyway now i think marriage, commitment ,love is only words.cause i spend my life with this words now my everything has finished
@suchetan230044 (618)
• India
7 Jan 07
yes i do believe in marriage.almost all the people in my town are happily married with very less instances of divorce.so marriage does work out.i see my parents,they are so happy with each other with full trust in each other.i would definitely marry the one i love.she is the best for me and the one who can really make me happy all my life.thanks
@winter_man (407)
• Malaysia
7 Jan 07
Yes I do believe in marriage and definitely I'll marry someone that I loved. Marriage is not a simple things, it involved a lot of commitments and complicated route to be a stable and happy ever after marriage.
So to achieve that stage,I feel that I need to marry with someone that I really love and same goes to her-love me as well. It is because we'll understand each other well and already know what we should do and what we shoudn't do.
@smritiraghu (40)
• India
7 Jan 07
i do believe in marraige.. ppl say that marraiges are made in heaven.. but then its all in ur hands whether its goin to be made in hell or heaven... its a lovely social institution that gives every individual a feel good factor and gives u a warm feeling that there is this one guy/woman who loves us a lot and is waitin for us to return the same.. marraige helps one by protecting them from gettin labelled by our so called "cultured society" unnecessarily!! its a tag that come along with u all the way till u die...:)
@madgirl (210)
• India
7 Jan 07
I believe in marriage only because its like giving a proof of your faith in love. If you love someone, marrying them proves that you will love them forever. And that's why its pointless to marry for social reasons (like arranged marriages) or because of an initial attraction which ultimately fizzles out or for money (the worst reason in my opinion).
The most romantic thing in the world is to see people who are in their fifties and sixties who still treat each other the way they did when they were in their 20s and in love and who remained married for that long as well. Its like proof that there really is something like love, which is something we desperately need at times.
But for that same reason, people shouldn't rush into marriage if they are not really having faith that they'll be together forever. Well, if not forever, that faith that they'll always love each other.
• India
7 Jan 07
yaaaaa i believe in marriage
i also like to marry the personj whom i like but the main problem is that our elders will not allow that but if they allow this think then its sure i'll marry him.
@cuddleme01 (2725)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
i do believe in marriage. and i will marry the one i truely love. i agree with you when you said that getting married shows how serious are you to each other to finally disable each other to have a relationship with anyone else.i prefer marriage than living in or cohabitation. Marriage offers more security both for each other and for the children, in terms of fatherhood/motherhood, and support.
@sarojrath (247)
• India
7 Jan 07
Ya you r true. getting married is something special. So i agree with u that people should get married. And as you said that getting married showes that you really are commited to each other. The best way i my opinion to show ur love is by getting married.
@diana_almonte (26)
• Philippines
7 Jan 07
yes is still do believe in marriage. in a world where divorce is so common marriage is the only thing that is stable enough to remain committed to your partner. it is romantic in terms of planning and its sacredness to vows and everything there is in it. however most people think that they dont believe in marriage because they fail to find the right person for them so they thought... marriage is a commitment made by two persons in love whether the marriage fails or not the memory of your partner who made smile, feel loved, and longed fall will never change... marriage is about love and respect for each other