Do you think Guys are over Protective about their sisters?
By fizza10
@fizza10 (1718)
Pakistan
72 responses
@komal_swetha (821)
• India
18 Oct 06
S they are protective. They should be but they should not restrict for everything, sisters should be set free but sisters should not misuse their freedom.
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@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
13 Oct 06
My brother was. He is 2 years older than me and he was always trying to protect me. He used to tell his friends that they could not date me, if they called our house looking for me, he would cuss at them. Of course at the time I was so aggrivated with him because his friend were older and CUTE!!! Now, I think is sweet that he wanted to take care of his little sister. I think all brothers should protect their sisters.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 06
yes.....now see you've realised that his little aggressiveness for you has shown you the result.....i guess now u'd feel even more closer to him emotionally and a sense of security would also be in your relationship .......Thanks for your response buddy:)
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@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I think it is important for a guy to be over protective of his sister. It shows he cares and wants nothing to happen. An no girls should not be allowed to do everything openly.
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@babray06 (1787)
• India
17 Oct 06
Well fizza we humans think differently at different age. In youth one doesnot like if any restrictions are imposed but at the same time when the same youth becomes parent starts imposing something on the kids/child. I am also against imposing anything on anyone. Of course there must be ways to discuss the matter and reach a solution.
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
11 Oct 06
I think sisters wtih protective brothers turn out better than those that are too easy. Over protective brothers can do more damage than good. They should under no circumstances be allowed to do that. Having said that, protective would be someone who knows who his sister is seeing and what she is upto, and has a say and an influence in her life. Over protective is when he interferes in her decisions and imposes his will without consideration to the sister's choices, even when she has maintained decent limits and has chosen wisely not only by her standards in general.
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@tranceoholic (92)
• India
11 Oct 06
wel some of us are, and need to chng accordin to times...
i try to give my sister the space she needs, dat way, we have a stable and good relation ship..
and she is also my best friend....
so it would definitely help to be a bit more liberal
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@chellene10 (110)
• Philippines
11 Oct 06
Brothers should always look after their sisters, that's why they're called brothers.
@soccerinn (26)
• India
13 Oct 06
ya its fine to leave gals upto their wish but how can a brother forget his responsibilty on her .. i don't think this sense is completely wrong .. as a brother he should play his part but must make her feel that he is trying to limit her freedom .. care ur sister such that she doesnt even feel she is restricted....
@soccerinn (26)
• India
13 Oct 06
there was a mistake... as a brother he should play his part but mustn't make her feel that he is trying to limit her freedom..
@skittlez353 (1402)
• United States
11 Oct 06
not all guys are. i think its better to have a brother thats over-protective than lets his sister do anything she wants. i dont have a full brother so i dont know.
@skittlez353 (1402)
• United States
11 Oct 06
haha ur funny ;) no problem. i went into the "brain busters" for about an hour, thats all!
@gulshah (861)
• China
15 Oct 06
one thing i would like to quote here is an example that why girls r protected more than guys by their parents and some time brothers
is that diamonds r always kept in high security coz if it gets a single scratch its price is lowered and no one like to watch towards it
but on the other hand guys r like pebbles who dont hav any such type of value as girls do
@franhrnt (185)
• United States
11 Oct 06
I have two very independent children who argue with each other,pick and sometimes even fight and let me tell you she can give him a run for his money but you let someone say or do something out of the way to my daughter and my son will put them in their place whether that be verbally or physically.He once said that he can do it but he won't stand by and let anyone mistreat his sister.