Are You A Control Freak?

I would say that, to a certain degree, yes, I am. I think I get a certain picture in my mind of how I think things should go in a situation and when it doesn't go that way it drives me crazy! Especially when I see that it's not going the way that I think it should because of what I deem as someone else's stupidity. And I don't think I'm a control freak about other people so much as I am about situations. Take Christmas, for example. I literally start thinking about what Christmas is going to be like in my house around January. As I'm disassembling my tree, I'm considering what it is that I want to do for the following year. I like my table scapes to look a certain way. I like to follow a certain color scheme each year. I want to have certain ornaments on my tree while others are to remain packed away for another year. It's really actually quite stupid when I think about it, but it's just how my mind works. I even go out and make special trips right after Christmas to shop the clearance sales so that I can find materials for my next Christmas plans. I'm really pathetic.... *sigh*

well I want to be honest.mmmmm Well, I am a scicilian but I do try to work on it...lol No, I dated a control freak once and he didnt last long.Its really a terrible thing and they need counsiling.It is very close- personality wise to stalking.Some of the tendancies are the same.I finaly got him to leave me alone but he called me a witch at that point and never heard from him again. lol

I wouldn't say I am a control freak because it feels as if I am always the one being controlled in my relationship. But I think that is mainly because I am not as independent this year as I was last. When I was working, I was very independent and refused to be controlled. But with me not working right now, I feel as if I am in a very submissive position. When a crisis happens though...I do tend to be the one in control. It is probably because I have had so much training in the military, that my training just kicks in and I start to control the situation. However, I would also not take control if I already saw that anyone person was in control and handling the situation well. Hence, I do not think that I am a control freak. :)

I don't believe I am, if I was my life would be more in order