Is it cheating?

It's a very tough question. Well, it depends how you feel. If you think he should not be doing so, then he should not be doing it. Thats pretty much the end of it.

I dont think by watching movies its cheating...i mean you can watch the movies with him 2! For awhile me and my fiance werent very happy, and i thought we could be over he was looking at naked pics on the internet! Nothing bothered me really until we started being happy again, and now i just want him to be happy with me! I still dont think theres anything wrong with it! By the way the picture that shows up is him!

I definately would say no its not cheating but Its not right. Have you voiced your concerns to him? Does he realize he watches it more than spending time with you? Some people dont realize how things like that affect the one they are with. I say talk to him before things get any worse.

yes it is

No, not really but it is kinda his way of saying there's something lacking in the intimacy department perhaps.

it may be trying to get into the mood...but i dont know many people who need to get in the mood, they usually have it ready on hand!

no it's not cheating...but it's a serious problem. He has issues he has to reslove...get counsling or whatever he needs to do. If he just wants to watch the videos and not have realtions with or get help. I would say move on. You deserve better!

I wouldn't consider it cheating but if he prefers to spend his time wit X-rated movies insyead with you I would seriously suggest a good talk what each of yours expectations are in this relationship

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I would not necessarily call it cheating, but I would consider that something is wrong if he is not having relations with you anymore. I would definitly be having a heart to heart talk with him ASAP.

I think it could tempt the person into cheating, when we have lust full thoughts eventually we seek to fulfill them. I fill also if that man loves that woman he wouldn't have to watch x-rated movies.

I would say yes just for the simple fact that he should only look at me naked, no other woman. I would leave my man if he did that cus he should only want to look at me, if he wants to look at some other woman naked then he thinks they're better looking than me and that im not the hottest woman in the world or he'd be lookin at me.

I wouldn't consider it cheating but I wouldn't be happy with it either.

It's not cheating but you need to discuss with him why he prefers that over you. Maybe there's a deeper issue.

I don't think it's cheating, but I do think it's dysfunctional.

I think its not. But many things depends up on circumstances so its not a simple question to answer. some time may be called a cheating