Marry a person whom i luv or the person who loves me...
By ashu_aryan85
@ashu_aryan85 (494)
India
January 10, 2007 4:00pm CST
hi friends.i m stuck in a dreadful sate...i got two girls..the first is one whom i love a loads but m not sure abt how much she loves me....while there is a second girl who i m very sure loves me loads but i treat her only as a very good friend......
please help me out to decide which girl i shud marry with????????
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13 responses
@abhiroop85 (2826)
• Scottsdale, Arizona
14 Jan 07
IF you wantto have a happy married life,marry the one who loves you,coz,he or she is so fond of you that he or she will never hurt you but always love you.
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@anshul1912 (256)
• India
26 Jan 07
i think marriage decision should not be taken in hurry.....
Marriage is a mutual relationship....,n i think marrying a girl who love u more than u love her make more sense....becoz after marrying she will try her best to keep u happy..
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@baapji (22)
• United States
10 Jan 07
Well there is an old saying marry the person who loves you and not the one you love....but can ask your heart whether you will be able to do justice if you marry the one who loves you.But to be more sure you can surely ask the one you love.
@dbeast (1495)
• India
25 Jan 07
well you better find out from the girl whom you love a lot whether she is interested in you.marriage is a relationship where two hearts unite.so i guess you both have to understand each other and you will automatically start respecting each ones feelings and fall in love.all d best for d future.
@momwatittude (542)
• United States
11 Jan 07
marriage is about both people loving each other. Life, love, and marriage are not one sided.Build you love on commitment honesty and trust with the one who loves you best.
@ajisconic2000 (633)
• Nigeria
11 Jan 07
Yes,it is better to marry the person who loves you
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@hiitssomu (657)
• United States
15 Jan 07
i guess is better to marry a girl who loves you and you love her. marriage is an institution, can not be run by one person. i am agree with that thoery that if u want a cool life, apparently u should marry someone who loves you.
But the problem with love is it can't run in one direction, it has to be bi-directional. so if you marry someone who loves you, you are doing some compromise, which is very bad in this type of relatioship. so in your case both are dangerous. i would not suggest to go for anyone. just wait and try to get a bi-directional type of love.
@Gigglygrrl (362)
• United States
14 Jan 07
It doesn't sound like you are ready for marriage yet. Wait until you are sure and you are both in love.
@cyb3rjunk13 (470)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Well getting married isnt a little thing.. so i think you should wait and see what happens..maybe the girl you love loves you loads as well..you just gotta sit back wait and observe:) good luck