whats most important .......................
By julie0825
@julie0825 (1414)
Philippines
10 responses
@mrsjumppuppy03 (3301)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Love is more important in my opinion. It gives you a reason to wake up in the morning and someone to share your life with. Money matters will always be an issue because no matter how much you make, you will always find a way to spend more than you earn.
@julie0825 (1414)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
yes - love - we need loving people around us who can help us when we need help and make life easier
@mrsjumppuppy03 (3301)
• United States
11 Jan 07
Love is more important in my opinion. It gives you a reason to wake up in the morning and someone to share your life with. Money matters will always be an issue because no matter how much you make, you will always find a way to spend more than you earn.
@Angelinka (1410)
• Italy
11 Jan 07
both thigs are very important in life..but for me..i always prefer love...
@fairytopia88 (175)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
If you marry someone with love and has no money sooner or later you'l keep on fighting because you dont have money to support yourselves.
But if you marry someone with money and has no love...sooner or later you'l become uncontented and unhappy with the relationship and yearn for someone to love.
Ideally...I think to a certain degree both love and money should be present....to keep the relationship going...
@aroraasr (428)
• India
11 Jan 07
It depends on person to person. But I personally feel that love is much more important in anybody's life than money. If you love someone or have a loving partner you can earn as much money as you can but if you have only money and no loving partner or you dont love anyone, sorry to say your life is heading towards nowhere. So if given a choice, please opt for love and not money.
@CC09241974 (69)
• United States
11 Jan 07
This is a tough one. you get to read me debating this question with myself...
Love...Having someone there when you need it. Having someone care for you. You wouldn't be lonely. Someone to make you happy. Someone to laugh with. Someone to anser your questions before you finish the question. Who is going to eat the table scraps when you can't finish? Who would take you out to movies/dinner and/or show you a good time?
Without Love....Be lonely. War. Nobody to turn to when needed support or help. No pets. No flowers. Gloomy feeling.
Money....can pay bills. can shop. can go out. can get anything/everything needed and wanted with out worrying. Can be lonely. Doesn't buy happiness. Travel anywhere. Handle emergencies without sacrificing something. Can be popular but in bad way.
Without money.... stuggle with needs. (I think that sums this one up!)
Ok so I came up with...Love as long as you have enough money to meet your needs to stay healthy with a roof over your head! I feel people who love and live within tough means seem happier and more helpful, pleasant than those with too much money. These money hungry people CAN be rude, greedy and have no clue what it is like to struggle and work hard for what they have because everything is handed to them or comes easily. When you work hard for what you have you appreciate it much more! So remember next time you wished you won the lottery, what kid of headache that would be and attitude changes in yourself, in turn, you may not be loved for you but for your money that does not equal happiness in my eyes!
CC