pregnancy

Just keep your head up and know that you're not alone in this. This happens far too often but it does'nt have to be the end of the world for you. It may seem like that right now but God has someone better for you. You'll see!

You can make it on your own if he decides to leave. Many women out there have had to do this including myself. I have a 5 year old son and I am pregnant now with my ex's baby. Both ex's (my sons dad and babys dad) have left me and so far I havent received child support from either one and I'm still making it. I went against child support for my son since my ex lives out of state, I didnt want him having rights to take my child far away because I dont trust him or what he would/could do. My childs safety is far more important to me. There's help/assistance out there for mothers like you/us. You can do it!!! =)

Mind if I say something as a guy. babymo, first of all your an attractive woman, secondly; he is not a man if he runs away from responsibility, if I was you, I would let him leave but I figure you still have feelings for him which is understandable, but life deals a harsh deck of cards at times, it's upto you to be strong for yourself and your baby, let him go and just get the child support agencies onto his case. It's not to get back at him, but to help support you and your child. I sincerely wish you all the best in this predicament.

Always remember that you are a STRONG BLACK WOMAN (if that is you in that pic)if not your a strong woman thats what you have to remember..your mommy didn't bring you up not being strong pray that your babys daddy will do the right thing and if he doesn't then that just means your baby and you are better off with out him..trust me you will come through what your going to go through have FAITH and never give up and you will come out on top

Sorry to hear this, but remember you are strong and that u can do this without a man. There are many moms that the father has left. U can do this alone , if he has a job I would be sure to get child support from him make him to his part at least that way and if he dont pay let the law get him. stay strong and a let god help u as well. I wish u luck !

Let the man leave, but take the money. You have rights in these cases.