Is it fair to be possesive in love

yaa but upto a certain extent after which it becomes intolerable.

in my opinion, being too pessessive may cause a problem because you might simply succumb every bit about your partner. It doesn't give her enough freedom to do what she wants without you knowing it. But i do believe that if you love someone, you want them to be with them always, you try to protect them and this where possession starts to arise but be to far fetch, then obessession paves the ways.

If you have faith in your love then your heart knows that someone is yours, there is no need to be possessive.

I know that in my relationship, me and my b/f are VERY possessive. I think it's to be expected, but it's up to the couple the extent they take it to.

Being possessive is something natural. Everyone is possessive at some point. Its the intensity of possessiveness that matters. If you love someone just let them be the way they are. Let them free, dont limit them to what they should do, what they should wear, who they should talk to and who not to talk to. He or she will never be themselves when things are imposed on them. Being too possessive is not very healthy. If you trust someone then you wont be very possessive.

based on my experience, the possesive things is good when you're married ... but before you married, you can't posses anyone ... so ... if you love someone, then just do your best for him/her, if it respond, that it is yours, if it doesn't, then it never was ...