tabi1978

@tabi1978 (33)

United States • Age 46

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Any suggestions?

jojopuff @jojopuff (520) • United States 18 Jan 07

My husband and I are trying to figure out something to do on a date night so that we can reconnect after a long work week. We don't have any extra money so it can't be anything that you have to pay for. We just need something...

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tabi1978 Cook up a good dinner and take it to the beach. Dont forget to take your blanket to sit down and streach out and also take your boom box to play some slow songs. If you are new to cooking then get some recipes here. www.foodnetwork.com. Enjoy the beach, the...

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Can you help me?

costadinov @costadinov (259) • Portugal 19 Jan 07

Yesterday me and my girlfriend we had a terrible discussion because the night before i came home very late,i went out with some friends and we drink a lot of beers and i forgot about the hours.Now she´s very angry with me and she...

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tabi1978 Trust is something that is really important in a relationship. Spending time with your girlfriend is also very important. She is not asking for much is she? The way you behave will only make your girlfriend trust you. Coming home very late and drunk will...

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Does your husband or significant other do any housework?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 18 Jan 07

I can't seem to get my husband to help me much with any of the chores around the house. I'll ask him why he doesn't help, and he says he works all day, week, etc. I work also, although I only work a 32-36 hr. week. But I also...

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tabi1978 Sometimes these things are inbuilt in a person. Their are made that way. They just blame it on work. Lots of my friends complain the same thing. My husband helps me clean the house. He never cooks. I have asked him a few times if he would like to cook...

19 Jan 07

Who should pay for the wedding?

reinydawn @reinydawn (11643) • United States 18 Jan 07

I was reading a topic about parents paying for college and I was wondering how people felt about paying for the daughter's wedding? I know that traditionally, the parents of the bride are supposed to foot the bill, and the...

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tabi1978 Weddings are a once in a life occasions. Usually the bride's parents are the ones who pay the bills. If the parents cant afford an expensive wedding then the daughter should be considerate and tell her fiance about the situation and have a simple wedding....

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Do You Have a Fear Spiders???

Alexandria37 @Alexandria37 (5717) • Ireland 19 Jan 07

I don't mean black widows or anything like that. I mean the big black spider that crawls up your walls and runs across the bedroom floor while you are reading, and by the time you find your slippers to trample it to death, the...

do you have a fear spiders

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tabi1978 Spiders are scary. But I'm very scared of lizards in the house. Spiders are ok compared to them. Next time u see a spider in your bathroom, reachout for a tissue, wet the tissue a little and pick up the spider with the tissue...and flush it down the toilet....

19 Jan 07

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Do you prefer staying late night?is it healthy?

kritipen @kritipen (4082) • United States 18 Jan 07

I love staying late in the night and do some work or watch television. Most of the times it is work. It is much more peaceful at night than the day time. Also i get a sense of satisfaction that i was able to concentrate more. On...

late night

sleep

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tabi1978 Staying up late does cause problems. If u have the option of working in the mornings then try to shift your timings to the mornings. Staying up late in the nights cause stress, tiredness make u look tired..and also responsible for most of the health...

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Decorating Graves

Ghost Writer @Writingghost (5196) • United States 16 May 20

The boys took over the job of decorating all the graves on Mother's Day. I bout the flowers but they did all the decorating and research. I was very proud of them when they called and asked me to come and get them to remove all...

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tabi1978 The boys took over the job of decorating all the graves on Mother's Day. I bout the flowers but they did all the decorating and research. I was very proud of them when they called and asked me to come and get them to remove all the decorations as well....

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How Many Children Do You Have and How Many Do You Intend To Have ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 18 Jan 07

I have 5 children . 4 of them are my biological and I have 1 that is in my care . I am not quite sure if I would like to have any more but think that if I could get my medical problems under control that I might like to have one...

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tabi1978 I dont have any now. But I would love to have three kids some day. 5 is a good number too. Children always bring joy to the family. Sort out medical issues and talk to ur hubby if you are planning to go for another one. Spending time with eachother is...

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What do you think? I think it's sad..

Alexanderrp @Alexanderrp (163) • United States 18 Jan 07

Well, here's the story. I was in a bowling alley with my family the other day, which is connected to a bar. There was another family bowling, 2 adults, and a kid. The 2 adults were drinking and fighting. The little girl,...

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tabi1978 Bad kids mean "Bad" parents. When parents make mistakes it works on kids minds. Its sad to see parents treat their kids this way. This is why there are so many kids who go astray. I would'nt be able to do anything to help these kids. Parents should know...

19 Jan 07

If you eat a cheeseburger and fries you will have to walk ...

awesomehorizons @awesomehorizons (884) • United States 18 Jan 07

This was very shocking to discover, especially since I like cheeseburgers and french fries. If a person eats a cheeseburger and french fries (1160 calories) and they want to burn all those calories to keep from gaining weight...

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tabi1978 Wooww that a lot of calories. I would run in the treatmill for about half hour on an incline to burn about 500 calories. The rest I would just leave it and try to balance the calories by eating less the next two meals by eating lots of fruits and yogurt and...

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I am "pleased" to report

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160663) • United States 20 Apr 20

I guess pleased is the word for it. I got the mower out. Dusted off the air filter, and cranked it up. Now I am taking time out to mow bits and pieces of my yard. It is a good thing. I get my exercise that way. So besides...

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tabi1978 I guess pleased is the word for it. I got the mower out. Dusted off the air filter, and cranked it up. Now I am taking time out to mow bits and pieces of my yard. It is a good thing. I get my exercise that way. So besides online work, there is another place...

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Deep cleaning

Penguinsangel @Penguinsangel (3498) • United States 15 Jan 07

How often do you go through your home and deep clean it? Getting rid of things you no longer want or use? My husband took the week off this week so we could deep clean the house. Well one of the reasons anyway, the other was...

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tabi1978 We dont pile up stuff in the house for long. If we have to throw something, or give it to someone,we often do it soon. So that way the house is less cluttered and neat. My husband cannot stand too much stuff lying around in the house...he likes the house to...

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Just for GIRLS!!

tooblue @tooblue (143) • United States 15 Jan 07

Most women find their hair to be their crowning glory. We love to color it, cut it, braid it and everything. And like most women, I have done everything that can be done to it. But for about a year now, I have been growing my hair...

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tabi1978 I have done all kinds of things to my hair, strighten it, curl it, braid it, cut and color. I think the best way to grow your hair is keep your roots strong. Have light trim one in 3 months. This will only increase the speed of growing. Give your hair an...

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why do many people smoke?

angelOFdemise @angelOFdemise (100) • Philippines 15 Jan 07

I am really confused. Efforts have been exerted by many health organizations in order to inform people the bad effects of smoking cigarettes. They say that smoking is the leading cause of almost all chronic diseases, that it is...

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tabi1978 Smoking is one of the things that I just wish it dissappears. I often wonder too, why people smoke even though they know it will kill them. Maybe its just a habbit, they get addiceted to it. Some think its cool to smoke. Some think its a good diversion and...

15 Jan 07

Abusive Marriage?

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 15 Jan 07

My friend is in a some what abusive marriage and will not leave. Her husband makes her work full time and also she has to milk the cows before and after her job. All the time he is playing poker with his friends, going to bars,...

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tabi1978 Its very difficult to get into a husband and wife relationship and see whats going wrong. There might be 101 reasons or even more why your friend is still there. But if I was in her position, I would have left long time back.

15 Jan 07

If you caught your partner flirting what would you do?

ivorychristine @ivorychristine (123) • Philippines 15 Jan 07

I just caught my husband flirting someone on his mobile phone. I learned about this when he's still sleeping until I decided to checked on his phone. There were numerous messages from the girl saying that they want to meet just...

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tabi1978 Just talk to your husband. Thats what I do. What would you do if your best friend let you down? Its the same thing. Think of your husband as your bestfriend...that way it would be easy to sit and talk things out. If you dont, then all kinds of negative...

15 Jan 07

Do you dine out or eat in more?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 1 Jan 07

It seems as though with working moms and busy lives, more and more of us seem to move towards eating out or delivery much more than cooking at home. Do you dine out/order out more or cook at home more?

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tabi1978 We eat in most of the times. Only during weekends we eat out. I cook everyday and its a good passtime.

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do you like white rice?

Croquetilla @Croquetilla (1797) • Spain 7 Jan 07

do you like white rice?

white rice

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tabi1978 Yes I eat white rice everyday. I like it a lot.

12 Jan 07

Ok, what's for dinner?

bonbon664 @bonbon664 (3466) • Canada 11 Jan 07

I've been busy, busy, busy today, now what's for dinner? I need some really quick ideas.

cooking

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tabi1978 The best bet would be a sandwich. Put some bread in the toaster, then after its toaseted arrange a slice of cheese, cut tomato wedges, cucumber, and turkey deli meat[or any kind of deli meat] speinkle some salt and pepper. Put it in the microwave for about...

12 Jan 07

favourie charactor

Maryam_Nazir @Maryam_Nazir (249) • Pakistan 11 Jan 07

Whos your favouvourite from FRIENDS?Mine is Phoebe.

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tabi1978 My favorite is phoebe. She is dumb and funny. I love her.

11 Jan 07