Ladies be honest do you think an older man will treat you better than a younger
By paule4129
@paule4129 (968)
United States
January 11, 2007 5:02pm CST
i think i would make a great partner again now that my life has opened up for a second go at a relationship what do you think i allready proved it and now my daughters say do it again and dont be afraid of any offers and they said it would be great to have more siblings- cool daughter dont you think
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61 responses
@knucklehead (73)
• United States
12 Jan 07
NO! Most older men are so sit in the way they want thing done. I'm telling you this from person exp. My husband is 14 years older then me. If I had to do it over again I would have run the other way. Most older men are ever comtroling.
@pebbles724 (642)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I don't think the age of a man has anything to do with how he will treat someone. I am involved with a man who is 6 years younger than me, but he treats me great. He respects me and loves me and that is what is important.
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I don't think age matters. I have met men old and young that are very respectful and kind. I have also met men who are just jerks. I am married to a man ninteen years and one day older than I am. He is very understanding and supportive. He has never tried to change my crazy ways in any way. He accepts me for me. I used to think that older men were the way to go to get respect. However, my daughter met a young man only sixteen and he is very much a gentleman. He opens doors for her and me as welll. This makes me think that it has less to do with age and more to do with how you raise your child. I raised my daughter to be very strong and self sufficiant. The boy and her are just friend but having him around lets me know that there is hope for our young people after all. To you I say get out there start dating. Remember you have to kiss a lot of frogs before the right person will come along, so get started. Good luck too
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@drskumar (1)
• India
12 Jan 07
When your daughters say that I think they are feeling your lonliness.All children want their parents be happy.And its nothing in age.It depends on the proper motive of a person if she/he knows whats the bonding. The love,affection,care counts not the age.So cheerup ur self and findout a real partner for your life. I knew some persons married girls 23years younger and are pulling nice.Hope to see you got a good angel in your life
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@seenoreen (559)
• Philippines
11 Jan 07
I don't think it has something to do with the age. However, most men aren't mature when they're still young so maybe older man can treat a woman better. It's rare to find mature young guys anymore, they tend to mature up when they're already old.
Still, there are some men who are still immature when they're already old.
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@princess07031980 (5412)
• United States
11 Jan 07
It doesnt have anything to do with age it has to do with equality. I was married to a man 10 years older than me and he dominated me like I was his daughter. I had curfews, he even turned up his nose at me going back to work after our baby was born. Never again....I hated the fact that he never though of me as equal.
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@paule4129 (968)
• United States
12 Jan 07
im sorry you were treated less than you should have /i think you met the wrong guy and i apreciate your answer i hope you will find your prince im lookin for my queen and i know how to treat a lady
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
13 Jan 07
the age difference between partner not more than 6-7 years if ur patner more older, than u always feel that he is dominating u . he always try to prove that because he has older than u he has saw more world than u , he has more experince than u , and he can take better decession than u .
so paule verry sorry i am not agree wiht u .
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@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
11 Jan 07
they are very thoughtful. they want you want you to be happy that is all. My son is five and when his dad left us and i was depressed i could tell it affected him also, not just because he didn't understand why his daddy left but because i was so sad too, now 3 years later, I have a great new guy in my life and my son is so much happier also because i am so happy. children know when a parent is not happy and all they want is for us to be happy.
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@paule4129 (968)
• United States
12 Jan 07
this is o so true im glad your having a happy ending and a new start for your son -having good parents makes the differnce
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
16 Jan 07
As age goes on men become more mature and more sensible. When men are young some guys do things the should not and they are do less thinking. Sometimes some young guys do not give as respect to the girls as they should be. One of my friend's bigger brother used to tease girls and used to hurt them with words and would sometimes mock them. As he got older and older and got married and started to have daugters of his own he become more and more good in his charachter. He sometimes says he shouldn't have said that and that etc to those girls. He states that he also has daughters of his own and he doesn't want someone ot hurt his children when they grow up with words or tease them like he have done in his younger age. I think the experience makes the older man to treat ladies better than younger guys.
@bryelee (451)
• United States
12 Jan 07
I am married and my hubby is 2 years older. If something ever happend and my marriage ended I probably wouldn't want to be with a younger guy. I would probably date someone either my age or no more than 3 or 4 years older. I think to much of an age gap an we wouldn't have much in common.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
14 Jan 07
Yes, I think she is a great daughter. I don't see anything wrong with a woman dating an older man. I'm more attracted to older men than people my age. My husband is 9 years older than me and I remember dating a 48 years old man once, I was 19. Older men treated me alot better than the ones my age.
@cyndhirella (549)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
Age doesn't matter, as they say. I guess what really counts is your compatibility with each other. If you both share the same interest and wavelength, then you will go afar.
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@lifeiseasy (2292)
• United States
15 Jan 07
You are the only one who truly knows what your heart says so if your are looking to get into a relationship than do it and have fun,your kids are cool with it ,thats even better.I liked the way you said opened up . LOL
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