Are Indians mad?!?!?

@eicher (509)
France
January 12, 2007 3:01pm CST
Yesterday I saw a reportage about India and I was scared learning it misses 50 millions of women because they kill female foetus. Abortion is legal but doctors say if the baby will be a girl or a boy (this is illegal) and so, when a woman is expecting a girl, she aborts because girls cannot keep their family, and because parents have to pay a dowry when their daughter marry... Lack of women leads to traffics I find this horrible and pitiful Did you know that? what do you think about that?
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@tocika (970)
• Romania
12 Jan 07
I don't hear something like this.I believe that Indian are peaceful nation...I don't believe that,maybe this article is writing from somebody that hates Indians.I'm not Indian,but I admire this nation for their culture!Hey?!They are human like we all,I admire them like a nation! Have a nice day!
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@eicher (509)
• France
12 Jan 07
sory but you're wrong: it wasn't an article... it is a programm very serious and recognized for its excellent reports, which send great reporters in India to investigate about this sad phenomenon
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@tocika (970)
• Romania
13 Jan 07
Maybe you're right but me any Indian make something mad...So,I can't say something bad about that nation!
• India
18 Jan 07
I strongly condemn this comment being made on some senseless report.I am an Indian and I can give u a massive list of Indian females who are Astranauts, doctors, engineers,fashion designers, Industrialists, managers, actors, socialists and scholars and students in Universities all over the World and proud children of their parents.Whatever is discussed in the posting is completely baseless and shows the narrow mindedness of the people making such postings .
• India
14 Jan 07
Just because some people do such act , you cannot blame all the Indian's. This is because of some uncultured and uneducated people. But our govt has passed certail regulatios which will decrease this.
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• India
13 Jan 07
My dear friend eicher ,what are u trying to do,i am an indian and deeply hurt by your posting where u have used the words ,are indians mad, istrongly condemn this and say that this statement could be given by only a narrow minded person. What u have heard might be a case with only few individuals and that too several years back.my dear friend if u know little about indians u willknow that many of our gods are females ,we respect them,and tere is absolutely no descrimnation in our society.I think we indians deserve an apology from u. If u still dont do that ,we feel that ,may god help u to be a little more sensible and disallow ideas like this to come into ur brain, better u know abt a country or society beore u make a comment.
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@puma_nz (999)
• New Zealand
12 Jan 07
This is weird I read all these discussions about how INDIA is a peaceful, Highly Educated Nation and all that cr@p and then you get stuff like this??? PEACEFUL my rrrrsss! How CRUEL can one be on such an innocent life wether it'd be a BOY or a GIRL.. This world needs BOTH to work.. That sorta sh!t makes me bl@rdy furious!!!
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@eicher (509)
• France
12 Jan 07
India is peaceful but somes countries have habits, beliefs or practises wich surprise or shock others
@puma_nz (999)
• New Zealand
13 Jan 07
Not when it comes to ABORTING a human life just because its a GIRL! I know one other Country who only allows ONE child per family.. If they have more than ONE they are classed as TRASH and pretty much shunned from Society.. I know alot of Countries that have the most STUPIDEST beliefs.. AND they try to bring it here to OUR Country!!! CRIKEY! theres not a chance in hell that'll ever happen.
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• India
13 Jan 07
India is peaceful, India is educated... well atleast most of the parts of India are educated. But there is a large rural population which is not that educated and do not realize the vices of Female feoticide. But the government n the various NGO are taking care of the situation and educating people and slowly these activities are reducing but it will take some time before it is completely eliminated.
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@jaizdeep (397)
• India
13 Jan 07
Well i dont know if u are an indian or not but yes whatever u said and whatever reasons u have given are true to quite an extent.... This practice prevailed earlier on a large scale but after the efforts or the government the gender of the baby cannot be tested and is illegal. So it has reduced to quite an extent and the dowry factor prevails but it is nowadays limited to rural areas and also to people who are not very literate But yes thanx for spreading that awareness and bringing up that topic so that i could tell you.yes it was a dreadful past but i guess modern india is gettting over it
• India
13 Jan 07
this is a very brutal act.killing foestus just because expecting it to be a girl is a very offensive task. i think people practicing this task should be punished. the law and order should be very strict in regards to this matter.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
13 Jan 07
no, i didn't hear anything about that at all... do you mind sending me the articles that you read as well as the source please??? thanks in advance...
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@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
sorry it is not an article: it is a french report program
@mansha (6298)
• India
13 Jan 07
Yes its true that girls are often discriminated against in India but problem is mainly due to lack of education and wide spread poverty. Its become a vicious circle now. To marry girls huge dowries are demanded and given which puts pressure on the girl child's parents. Even in citries this practice is prevalant hence the thought is that while a male child will bring the money home girl child will take it to someone's home. Additionally there is the question of carrying on the family business and land cultivation. hence male child is preffered by many. Things will change in future I am hope ful because Indian gogvernment is taking frm steps to educate people and is making laws to control female infanticide. Recent addition to this is domestic voilence law that covers abuse against wman in all relationships, wives, daughter, sisters and even live in relationships. I think by right appraoch with education as well as stricter laws India will resolve this problem in coming years. please read about this here http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,25689-2422644,00.html
@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
thank you very much
• Israel
13 Jan 07
Pack of bloody murderers, that what they are. Just for the pleasure of trying for a boy. What a shame. Just wait till they realize that they are wiping their own female generation. And then they'll be saying, "Where have all the women gone?" When will they ever learn. What a shame to be female in a such a country, only to be murdered before you even make an entrance into this big bad world. What a shame, and how shameful. How does one live with such a gutless crime?
@sarkar1 (336)
• India
15 Jan 07
dont speak like an idiot!!!
• India
18 Jan 07
hello spiderman, dont even dare to make such a comment on a posting being made by some senseless person. When u state the word when will they learn, i will tell u if u can get the statistics u will ome to know the country with highest number of scientists all over the World is India. We have scientists,astronauts,fashion designers, doctors,managers, industrialists as females.I can give u a vast list of this.But u have already closed ur eyes to truth then god only can make u think what is right.
@dravid (1047)
• India
13 Jan 07
i am really offende form ur say are indian mads.....if i ask is eicher mad man how would u feel...i think u are from a civilzed culture...and like putting some nation down in such a manner feels so bad...really...i am An Indain.Love my country very much....i appritiate ur concern for our nation such abortion cases have been grately reduced...still i feel that much work needs to be done.... man india ia poor country and here u have somyhing called dourysystem...where girls have to pay dowry...when they are getting marride(which is really bad) ...they kill their child...... i just fell that these people need some education so that they can have sufficient food to feed their childrens...and educating will help them understand the what is really bad.... govermrnt is really working in this regard...and we are going to be one of the most powerful nations.... We have a growth rate of around 9% can u belive it it is the largest in the world.... We have 70% of the population as youth...who are the main source of consumption and prodction... India is comming as a big asian player... we also posses nuclear wepanory... still we bilive in love and peace.... So it is very unfair to say somthing Are Indiands M..... Please...dont hurt the Indian Sentiments this way.... Your concern for India is appritable though
@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
1/ I am a woman 2/ I am French 3/ I ever said everyone has beliefs, habits or acts which shock the others and so, I am proud to live in France but I shame on my historic past country 4/ I don't condemn and I don't hate Indians
• India
13 Jan 07
Hello mr. you know every country has it pros and cons this does not mean you raise a topic criticising that nation for a particular problem. If i start a topic by saying, are France people gone damn Mad..then how you feel. That's not a decent manner to put a topic. I am very sad to see such topic..I will report ABUSE!!!
@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
you can report abuse if you want but I will never blame somebody who criticize my country: I am happy and proud to live in France but I shame on my historical past country and even now, I shame on french mentality
• India
13 Jan 07
i am from india and i must say this report is true.but not all of the people do this.its just the people in the villages who prefer male children as they believe that a son will work for the family while a daughter is just a burden.all this is due to the illiteracy and backwardness in the rural areas of india.all this backwardness is due to the fact that india is still struggling to overcome the effects of the british rule
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@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
thank you
• India
13 Jan 07
No the thing is not tht indians r mad................on the fault of one we cant say all r wrong..........as prisoners r all over the world n not in india only.....so its all abt who is th faulty person n not abt indians or with sum other ethinicity............think abt it once more......we cant say ny thin for a whole country.
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@sarkar1 (336)
• India
13 Jan 07
well said???
@sree32 (64)
• India
27 Jan 07
Hi eicher...sad to say this is happening in India. Scanning to find whether the foetus is boy or girl and killing female foetus are illegal and there are legal provisions. But still many people are doing this illegally and female infanticide is a social evil. This is happening mostly among economically/socially/educationally back word people in India. Prevailing dowry system, atrocities against females and illiteracy are some of the major reasons behind this social problem.
@eicher (509)
• France
27 Jan 07
thank you very much ;)
@umair2hot (1220)
• India
13 Jan 07
I don't hear a news abt it....dont say like that to indians , inidians are also our friends...They arent bad peoples...they have a good heart they i have seen them not all bad...
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@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
I never said Indians are bad and I like them ;)
• India
13 Jan 07
ok u saw this report ,very good . do u know how many population we have ? if yes do u know how many girls and boys born here every day ? No , ok ask ur papa . bye
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@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
ok do you know how many men remain singles? do you know that is has approximately 1 girl for 5 men in certain area? No, ok ask your mama
@angadp (199)
• India
13 Jan 07
I am an indian and the dowry practice was very popular in the earlier times. But now this practice is made illegal by passing act in the parliament. But the people still practice this. Thats why a girl is not preferred. But now the thinking of people is changing. They oppose dowry.
@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
thank you fou this hopeful message ;)
• India
13 Jan 07
I am an Indian, But i agree with you, still people in my country do all this for a boy child. It is worst in the villages.
@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
thank you for your support
@kotad6 (209)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
Is it real ? I cant believe it.
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@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
yes, unfortunately it is true
@pradesh13 (287)
• India
13 Jan 07
This is a Public Health Problem in India.Lots of Advocacy and Legalisation is going on regarding this issue. We cannot blame women also directly as you must be knowing Women in India in some of the developing states are bound to follow the social issues. Social factors like Poverty, illiteracy , Attitude and Behaviour of People matter a lot.
@eicher (509)
• France
14 Jan 07
I don't blame women, on the contrary, I pity them because they undergo pressures if they don't have boys