Be honest..

@hobohobo (678)
Indonesia
January 13, 2007 2:46am CST
Do you have lied to your girlfriend / boyfriend ? Why you not tell the truth ?
13 responses
smalltownmtngirl
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Telling the truth is the best way to go, no matter how bad it is.
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
Yes it's tru, but some of us to afraid telling the truth, some of us can't face what will be happen if she/he knows the truth, so we choose to keep the truth.
Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
Yes, but if we tell the reason why we lied maybe the person can accept it, and maybe the time isn't right. Just like you say, the time for the truth will come, and when the time is come she/he can accept the truth
smalltownmtngirl
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Running away and keeping it inside only makes it worse. Besides, the truth always comes out eventually, why wait till it can do the most damage?
ersanjana17
@ersanjana17 (626)
• India
15 Jan 07
no,i never do that n i know that in future also i'll not do that.i love him so much n i can't tell a lie to him.he know everything abt my life.n one thing also he loves me more than i love him then why should i lied to him.
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
you must be have a good reationship with your girlfriend, both of you love each other, what a nice couple hope i can do the same with my relationship
vinaykant
@vinaykant (812)
• India
15 Jan 07
some time i lie to my GF but its not like that i cheat her,i lie only about drink or smoke.:) shehate both of them
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
I think you should thell her that you smoke and drink, but you don't do both of them in front of her, hope your girl friend can understand it,you will always keep lied to her because drink and smoke is a habit
shadow9
@shadow9 (238)
• Romania
15 Jan 07
no ... i have never lied to my girlfriend ... if she asks about stuf ... but i don't actually tell her everithing if she dose not ask but i do not lie
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
well that's defensive personality, but in a relationship openess is needed, telling our mate about ourself is not bad
rsp9098
@rsp9098 (755)
• India
15 Jan 07
i hav never lied to him...i can't do that!i can't sleep that day if i lie to him!and he knows that i won't lie!
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
wow your boyfriend is lucky have girlfriend like you, you must be love him very much, hope you will be together with your boyfriend forever, nice to know someone like you
mishang
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
nope, i haven't because we believe in three simple principles for our relationship to work, 1)honesty 2)respect and lastly, 3)love. have a good day:)
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
Thanks four your response, it's a great
linzmcwilliams
@linzmcwilliams (1552)
•
13 Jan 07
I don't think i have ever lied to my boyfriend. If i did, he would see right through me, we are too close for lies to work. If he lies about something i can tell straight away.
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
wow that's great, hope both of you can always together
julie0825
@julie0825 (1414)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
yes i lied to my relationship i had now - it is personal reason why
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
it's ok if you don't want to tell why, i had lied to my girlfriend too, hope it's for good reason
zaratoga
@zaratoga (83)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
No, I did not lie my boyfriend, I love him so I must be honest to him for everything and I believe he will also do like that
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
two thumbs up for you, hope your boyfriend doing the same thing just like you
ugachaka
@ugachaka (297)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I think just about everyone has lied to their significant other at some point. If you haven't, you just haven't been going out long enough. Little things to protect people's feelings are still lies, but they can be perfectly innocent and well-intended. It's the big ones that keep compounding themselves that you have to worry about.
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
That's what called white lied, keep the truth to keep the feeling. Most of us have doing that even we know it's wrong, but we still lied to keep our relationship
Zeroline
@Zeroline (4)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 07
Yup..i ever lie to my boyfriend..because he also lie to me before..but at last we also breakup. Now im with my new boyfriend, i also ever lie him last time because of some personal reason also..but now i have to change my this bad habit because its really not good for our relationship. You din tell him the truth now, if one day he know that you lie to him then this will make both of you quarrel and end with bad ending..so i'll try my best dont tell lie to him...same as you all!!
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
I'm sorry to hear that your broke up because of it, I agree with you I hope i always tell the truth to my girlfriend, so our relation will not have serious problem
highflyingxangel
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I have..but it was awhile ago, and neither of us were being completely honest at that time. It was never anything big..mostly how I felt about things. Other than that, I've been honest.
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
That's what keep the relation still exist, accept the bad things that our mate have done and keep telling the truth
purplehaze
@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
No, i dont lie to my boyfriend because i believe that trust is one of the most important things that builds a good relationship.Same thing, if i find out that my boyfriend lied to me, i would be very disappointed and depending on the gravity of the situation, i might break up with him. I find it hard to trust people again after losing my trust in them.
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Dicky
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
That's the good thing, but not trust someone because he/she had done something wrong it's not fair, maybe he/she do that for some reason, hope you can forgive him/her