on what bases do you accept people as your friend?
By ercsa2002
@ercsa2002 (163)
Romania
January 13, 2007 3:08pm CST
in any relationship we meet people and they either become oru friend or not. what are the criterias in your point of view to decide who could be your friend and who is not suitable? or you sre just simply friendly with everybody and let time to decide?
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10 responses
@symontimea (842)
• Romania
13 Jan 07
well, first of all this person has to be sympathetic for the first site, then after time i will decide how close i will let him/her to me...
@advicegirl (95)
• United States
14 Jan 07
It's an interesting discussion. From my own experiences, I've found that as I got older my expectations and needs in friendships have changed. Such as when I was in college, a good friend is considered someone that you go out with and have a good time who's there with you on a daily basis. Now, I look for a deeper connection, such as the long talks, the there for you when things aren't so great, the trust, the loyalty, the ability to tell you the truth when no one else can or will, and that will love you even when you don't feel love-able. A friend is your extended family. You don't choose your parents or siblings but you can certainly choose your friends and because of that, the bonds you share with them can be deeper because you personally hand picked them.
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@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
14 Jan 07
for me it's an honor to be invited as a friend. in sincere appreciation, i accept the invitation. i don't look at their profiles anymore, i simply accept, regardless of who they are. a friend is a friend, after all, right?
@chemicalh2 (627)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
Trust is always been my basis. also, respect. others will just come around like generousity... etc.
@fatling (16)
• United States
14 Jan 07
I act friendly towards everyone that I meet, and ask questions to get to know them. If someone is easy for me to talk to and has similar interests, then I'll likely start hanging out with them and we'll become friends. I don't actively make friends - it just happens in the way I described.
@Lemongrass18 (313)
• Singapore
14 Jan 07
Relationship should be based on trust. One needs to understand the other party before deciding if the relationship is substainable. This comes only with time.
@Slim_Shady (668)
• Romania
14 Jan 07
The first thing that i want in a fiernd, is a sence of humour !
I don't need nears or other kinds of people that don't know to say or listen to a joke !
The second thing is the way he acts in society !
I don't need a gipsy when i go to the clubs , or in a restaurant ! If he dosen't know how to act he'll never be my friend !
@flikkenni (537)
• Indonesia
14 Jan 07
I accept people to be my friend if they are exciting for my like if you communicate with them you have the right to be respond, and a good friend always be with you, so they must kind and can accompany you whatever happen. In the last thing is trust and respect. A friend also must trust and respect your friend. Without eat you can be fight and suspicious each other.