what do you feel make people cheat their Love?
By raveemenon
@raveemenon (1071)
India
January 16, 2007 11:13am CST
It continues to be a mystery why people cheat their loved ones! The funny fact is that often the third person may not be as attractive as one's love. But why still people cheat? do you feel whether looks have any role here? if not what other reason do you atribute?
8 responses
@fivel24601 (7)
• Japan
16 Jan 07
I'm sure that every reason possible has been used as an excuse by cheaters. What it boils down to is that either they didn't love you enough to be committed, were unsatisfied and instead of talking to you about it-decided to be selfish, irresponsible and cheat, and of course the whole ego thing that if someone they think is more attractive and can score, they will. It happens that people find themselves in a relationship they don't want to be in any longer and find someone else, but that does not excuse cheating. If you're to the point that you love or are willing to cheat with someone else, you should definitely have said something to your partner beforehand or ended your previous relationship.
@raveemenon (1071)
• India
17 Jan 07
I fully agree with you. sincerity matters in any relationship.thanks for your frank opinion.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
18 Jan 07
I think people cheat because they are idiots!! If they're not idiots for cheating they're idiots for having the first one in the first place, that they won't be true to. When I love someone I love that person. So far I'm still wirh my first love, and I'd never do anything to hurt him. They're idiots for starting the relationship they can't keep. If the person truly loved the other person, they woudln't dream of cheating!!
@Bytemi (1553)
• United States
17 Jan 07
Honestly I believe that people cheat because they are not receiving something that they need to feel loved in their relationship. My boyfriend and I have a role, since we have both been married and divorced, we agreed that if one of us feels attracted to another person and if we are considering cheating then we would talk to each and try and figure out what is missing. If you feel unloved or if you need more affection or anything like that you are not getting it home, you are going to go and look for it somewhere else.
@jinkson_unoh (186)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
People cheat the one that they love maybe out of curiosity. Being curious will definitely triggers a person to do unusual things. It could also be that his or her partner might have a lot of shortcomings within their relationship and someone have come along to fill those shortcomings. For me, looks don't count although it contributes also.
@honeybunnie (51)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
maybe it makes them happy to cheat thier loved ones, stoeln moments makes them quite fulfulling... and i dont know why does those third party people agree on cheating the legal ones when they knew that the poeple they are having an affair is already married....
@bev_arch_20 (842)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
they are not contended of what they have, that's why they try to look for someone, aside from that, it's a men nature to womanize.
