does it bother you when people say they are going to do something...

Heck yea because your word is your bond and if you say something you should make sure you do it.

I understand that at times things just come up and get in the way of doing things that you said you would do but when it happens all the time it just drives me nuts. I get so frustrated. My husbnad is really bad at it. He will say he will do the dishes and then next thing I know he is in bed and the dishes are still not done. It has gotten to the point where if I want him to do something Ihave to tell him to do it right then or I know it won't get done. It is sad that I have to do this. Then he gets mad because he feels I don't think I can rely on him. He just doesn't get it. I think I get more disgusted and frustrated than hurt. Either way it drives me insane.

i cant stand it..especially when its a common thing..i used to be frineds with this girl and we would always make plans to do something with our kids and lastminute she would always cancel..not once did she ever not...and i would always be stuck by myself goin to the zoo or the amusment park with my kids because i dont want to let my kids down..yeah it really urks me when pple do that