Help me...what is the correct time to get marry?

@whozefa (448)
India
January 17, 2007 3:59am CST
hi i m 24yrs of age, my family wants me to get married as soon as possibel , but i do feel that i m not upto it, can u help me wht shld i do , shld when we feeel that now we need a life partner that time we shld marry or ther is some fix age some people says after a big age u dont get good life partners so pls help meee
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8 responses
@yusuf332 (14)
• India
8 Feb 07
Hozi Get Marry Soon \ok
@kritipen (4082)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I think 24 is a good enough age. But if you think that u should probably wait a little longer then you can also wait for a couple of years. 27-29 is the best time beyond which You might have to think twice before you wait.
@mcbota (2125)
• Romania
17 Jan 07
By responding to this question you make me to think that I become older again with one more year in 2007.I cant say if is a good age or a bad age but some are calling this age a good one.At this age you are able usually to think more mature than others which are younger,but also you can be in the crisis of this certain age.You have to have a good family and maybe children.As for me at this age I have a family ,a driven license which usually you can afford to have at the age of 18 here in Romania,I have a job but I do not have any children yet.I would like to have and I think is the best age to be already in marriage life.Some says that the best age to be married is around 29 years old but this depends from country to country.If you can guess what age I have it is very good and if not I will tell you that I am 37 and I am thankful to God for what I have and done till this age!May God bless you all even if you are old ,young ,married or not married!So if you can calculate the year of my born you will see that I was born in 1970!
• United States
17 Jan 07
You can get married at any age no matter if it's 24 or 64. You should get married when your ready and you feel you want to be. Don't let others pressure you into something you don't want to do. You must live your own lives, and they must live theirs.
@lotus123 (225)
• India
17 Jan 07
I think 21 years of age is a girl, 25 years of age is a boy. Is a correct age is the marry life.
@jojopuff (520)
• United States
17 Jan 07
Your family should not be deciding for you when the best time for you to get married is. You and your significant other should be the only ones to decide that. You should get married when you feel you are ready; there is no fixed age that you "have" to be married by. I think when both people are ready, that's when they should get married. It just depends on the person. For example, I got married at 19 and my husband is 22...sometimes that's too young for some, but it wasn't for us. We were ready. Just don't get married for the sake of getting married or just to please your family. Marriage is a huge decision and you want to make sure you are ready before tying the knot!
@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Well the fact that you're doubting about marriage makes it obvious that you're not yet ready. Every marriage have their own set of ups and downs but if you make love the center of your marriage I believe there is nothing to tough for you to solve. marriage doesn't mean giving up your identity to become a good wife or husband, it's all about compromise and understanding. There are some instances that you need to chose between the things you like and the things that your spouse like.
@abhax123 (1695)
• India
17 Jan 07
24 is right age man and hey there is no fixed age to get marry , when you feel that you are financially and emotionally fit to get into a relation thats a right age to get marry and most of all its you who decide...