How do i love my girlfriend??

@as2490 (90)
January 17, 2007 4:18am CST
i really need some advice on lovng my girlfriend. Im 17 years old and ive been with my girlfriend for about 10months and at the start of the relationship i liked her alot i could say that i loved her and we used to say "i love you" to each other. But things changed when i went on a holiday about 3 months ago for about a week and a half. Basically after returning from the holiday i had lost all my love for her and i couldnt even listen to her say "i love you" anymore and i couldnt say it either! I think it may be due to the fact that by looking at other girls i think i could do better. But my girlfriend is so niceeee shes the best and shes really kind hearted and everything!! and shes quite good looking too but i could do better with the looks. I dont know what to do anymore i need serious help.. i told her lets wait for like another 6months and if i still cant love you than we'll call it quits! please help me on what i should do!!???
3 responses
@ms_fery (251)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
your relationship is in the middle of test, a test of faithfulness and trusting each other, if you really love her why don't you try to court her again while your together and say i love you everytime you have a chance.
@as2490 (90)
17 Jan 07
but i cant say i love you to her because i know i dont mean it. And like i dont know what to do. i dont want to break up and break her heart. i just want to love her.
@eseomame (1146)
• United States
17 Jan 07
The answer to that question, I think, lies with you. If you think she's not good-looking enough for you, then follow you heart because it's always better to regret your mistake than the mistake of others (I mean people making the mistake for you). But I want you to search yourself and make sure it's not lust you are after before making your decision (Because she seems really nice from your description). Anywayz, good luck on whatever decision you take.
@as2490 (90)
19 Jan 07
thankyou for all your responses, could you evaluate more on what you say please. i really need advice in the situation im in its really hard for me.
• India
17 Jan 07
if u cant live without her and u always care her.if u can't see sad her. then u could say u love her.