ms_fery

@ms_fery (251)

Philippines • Age 42

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ms_fery @ms_fery (251) • Philippines 28 Feb 07

what will you do if your boyfriend for almost four years will tell you that he doesn't have a plan for marriage or settle down, especially with you. what will you do.

relationships

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What will you do if you find out that your husband has another child?

fieryfrost @fieryfrost (316) • Philippines 28 Feb 07

I was watching a show yesterday and this was the scenario. The wife thought that the husband was cheating, she noticed that he's been going to a different state every other weekend so she followed him once. There she sees him...

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ms_fery i am not married yet but i will give my view on this matter, first of course it would be stupidity not to react it was the initial reaction but the fact that your husband told you about it is a bigger option at least he doesn't cheat on you and it is not the...

28 Feb 07

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do you miss your love ones who had past away?

yana0806 @yana0806 (565) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

I remember my late grandmother just this moment, i use to cry everytime i think of her. I dream about her last month ago, on my dream she was hugging me and she kissed me, i feel so happy atleast i saw her again, even only through...

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ms_fery yes,my grandfather in my father side died when i was still young but the memories remain especially to my eldest sister, he is very understanding and he loves us in a different way. sometimes we miss him and the things he have done to us eveery vacations he...

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Another death question...

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 4 Feb 07

If someone very close to you was dying... and you knew the only way they were staying alive was by life support, would you pull the plug and let them go? Or would you keep up the fight for them? When is the line drawn? I mean...

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ms_fery id rather pull the plug is the doctor said that my loved one will no longer be the same again and will suffer more if he/she live. i love them but i dont want to see them suffer in the days that i decided to fight for their lives it would be burden to their...

5 Feb 07

Getting married a virgin has it's downside =(

fieryfrost @fieryfrost (316) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

When I was single I've always been proud of being a virgin not for any religious reason, I thought it was something really nice to do...to save yourself for that one special person, he being the first and last as they say. But...

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ms_fery don't think negative for being a virgin before you marry your husband, as for the experience try to watch movies and read some books, your problem is actually a major problem, if you really want to make him happy try to asked what are going to do to make him...

2 Feb 07

rich and poor a classification???

ms_fery @ms_fery (251) • Philippines 29 Jan 07

i am not rich and not that poor, i can say i'm in a middle class family, i am working in a company for about 3 years now, the employee are dominated by women, i have a department mate who is rich and beautiful, she was invited to...

relationships

If a friend owed you money and forgot to pay...would you ask it from her?

ladymoonstone143 @ladymoonstone143 (1507) • United States 29 Jan 07

If a friend borrowed money from you and it is not the kind of amount that you would consider loose change, would you remind her if she seemed to have forgotten to pay it? I am in this situation but its been almost 5 years since it...

friendship

money

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ms_fery in friendship it doesn't matter much if you are not broke, what important is you have a friend you can rely on and will help you no matter what, it is only a moneym, you can earn it but you can't find another friend in a short period of time. maybe now you...

29 Jan 07

How should i forget him?

sunflowergirl @sunflowergirl (3064) • United Arab Emirates 29 Jan 07

i was in love with a guy and after like 5years i come to know that he has been lieing to me.... lies which i can not take...i mean any girl wont....can plzzzzzzzzz any one help me how should i forget him??should i make friends...

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ms_fery did you broke up with him already? if not start in that point, if he can lie to you for 5 years now he can lie to you again and again and again. ask him why he lie to you and ask what is the matter with your relationship or what is the problem in your part. if...

29 Jan 07

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what will you do in times like this???

ms_fery @ms_fery (251) • Philippines 29 Jan 07

I have an adopted brother, he is about six years old now. adopting is a bit common to us, i have 2 cousins who are adopted, it never entered my mind what will happen if my brother finds out tha he is an adopted when i enter one...

family

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Should I search for my real father?

vbcoder @vbcoder (196) • Philippines 27 Jan 07

I have already known since I was about 6 or 7 years old that I have a stepfather. I have no memories of my real father. I only saw him from a picture. My stepfather is very good. He accepted my as his own. I have no problems with...

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ms_fery if you think that it will make you a complete person, explain to your stepfather that you want to search for your own father, for a closure. sometimes we want to answer the question in our mind to be able to function in a right way. if you find out who is...

29 Jan 07

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My Father has Another Woman!

nicelyrom @nicelyrom (521) • Philippines 28 Jan 07

My father left my Mom and I last week without telling us "why" and without informing us his whereabouts. Then, I discovered he's living in with another woman - a younger one, as I may say. He did this to us for many times ever...

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ms_fery in respect with your mom and if you can stand for the needs of your family, try to forgive and forget your dad, you can win him back maybe, but what is the use of winning him back if he can't stop himself to find another woman. situation like this is similar...

29 Jan 07

Is it okay to love someone even if you know he/she does not love you?

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 26 Dec 06

Would you continue to love someone even if you know that he/she is in love with someone else? Is this normal or must it end right away?

love

loving someone

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ms_fery i must say it is normal but we need to end it up to be able to continue our lives it is okay to love her/him in a distance but if you think you can not function in a right way end it up. sometimes loving someone and never be able to love anyone in exchange is...

29 Jan 07

I am Never Saying That Again

Go Crossbones @crossbones27 (49432) • Mojave, California 17 Oct

My boy George is at the house. That is right I still have friends. I have not seen this dude in a long time. Probably 20 years. Anyway, he from Cleveland originally. I have Yankees Guardians game on. George has...

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ms_fery My boy George is at the house. That is right I still have friends. I have not seen this dude in a long time. Probably 20 years. Anyway, he from Cleveland originally. I have Yankees Guardians game on. George has always been one of the most chill...

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After break up can lover again become friends

mathurvarun @mathurvarun (980) • India 26 Jan 07

After a break up can the guy and girl again become friends dont u think the ego part can come in between??

love

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ms_fery one of my friend is having this personality that she wants her exes to be her friend again, i must say she is unique but luckyly two of her exes is her friend. i even asked her why she wants her exes to be her friend then she told me that if time comes the...

26 Jan 07

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You must not ignore the women's advice

Xavier Bage @franxav (13836) • India 14 Oct

Most of the children of our foster home were taken by their relatives for the Durga Puja holidays. Thus, I got some days of freedom from tensions of child care. I thought I would give some time to one of the favorite hobbies -...

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ms_fery Most of the children of our foster home were taken by their relatives for the Durga Puja holidays. Thus, I got some days of freedom from tensions of child care. I thought I would give some time to one of the favorite hobbies - gardening. I picked up some...

14 Oct

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Shrimp Saturday

TaxiLady @Ghostlady (1302) • United States 12 Oct

Went to WinnDixie today and got some Cooked Shrimp, some fettucine, and some Broccoli/Cauliflower. Cooked onion and the Broccoli, added Alfredo Sauce, and let it simmer until the fettucine was almost done. Added the cut up shrimp...

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ms_fery Went to WinnDixie today and got some Cooked Shrimp, some fettucine, and some Broccoli/Cauliflower. Cooked onion and the Broccoli, added Alfredo Sauce, and let it simmer until the fettucine was almost done. Added the cut up shrimp to the Alfredo Sauce..let that...

12 Oct

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I FINALLY did some COOKING on my OWN! the details!

Jennifer Dombrowski @LovesEverybody (4569) • United States 11 Oct

Good Afternoon myLot! Guess what I did this afternoon? With my peer only watching today, I put the oven on (then wrote how to turn it on in my notebook, so I don't forget how when my peer isn't here) I put six slices of garlic...

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ms_fery Good Afternoon myLot! Guess what I did this afternoon? With my peer only watching today, I put the oven on (then wrote how to turn it on in my notebook, so I don't forget how when my peer isn't here) I put six slices of garlic bread that has different...

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my hubby confessed!!!!

leonilyn @leonilyn (467) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

lately he confessed that he really liked one of their customers. i saw that girl already and i know that he likes that girl. he acts so funny. when the girl came and rent on their shop he will call at me and told that she is...

acceptance

honesty

relationship

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ms_fery no, im single but if that time comes i will definitely tell my husband that if he likes a girl better call me and tell me so i can tease him too. seriously your relationship is not only husband and wife but strong friendship and i guess that's one example of...

26 Jan 07

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