My Father has Another Woman!

you're right. Dad is like a caged bird. The more we tell him "not to," the more he does it. i think you are right, bringing him back will not sugar the pill. thanks!

well, ur dad is not a small kid as in he knows wat are the consequences of this decision... n he has already taken a decision... so now it is you and ur mom to decide wat decision to take and ofcourse u will know the consequences... well i would suggest getting him to back is not going to solev ur problems.. it may affect ur minds again in the near future... and i should say this that it is easy for me to say these things but when i put myself into your place it is going to be difficult.. you seem to be a brave girl!! do what ur mind says!!

I can't erase him in my life because he is my father. But I want to get even. The fact that he left us for that other woman is the worst manifestation that he is willing to give up us. Leaving us means forgetting us. So, I should let him go while Mom and I move on.

C'mon wake up...you know ur grown up and u can handle the situation...or is there anything better that xplains ur discussing this so called sensitive issue on the net than with ur family and relatives..Get a life!! ur 25...by now u should be having a job and a life of ur own..still want pappa to hold hands and take u shopping...as for ur mom she needS you more than anything else in this world...try give her company...stop wasting time here discussing...and the best way to treat ur naujawaan dad ud be to leave him alone and let him do watever crap he wants to do wid his life...he is still a baby and he needs to learn frm his mistakes...give him a hard time....follow my rules and i swear the new lady is goin to dump him fast and he'll come bak weeping!!!god bless

Accept and be a fool again. Yeah, right. I really love them both but with my my Dad has done to us, I am beginning to hate him.

Hi, I think what you're feeling(anger) towards your father is just normal, but MSQTECH is right your parents should deal with the problem and be with your mother all the time. Support and guide her. You can voice out your opinion, but the bottom line is that they are the one who will decide for themselves, besides you will have your own family soon. You have to move on, whatever your parent's decision is. Always pray to God to have His guidance. Pray for your parent's relationship, pray for your relationship with your father, pray for your family's relationship. Forgive your dad, I know it's hard but that is the only way to have a great relief of your anger. If they decided to be together again be happy for them respect their decisions, make the failed/bad experiences be your motivation to have a better relationship. God BLess.

yep. a dad will always be a dad and will always be a part of our lives. but it's too painful to go through such a situation. however, in due time, everything will be better.

I won't erase him in my life but I will not include him in my plans anymore. I am tired of understanding him. Enough is enough.

after that, what? he will return to us and then leave us again? he did that to us for how many times and now, im tired of understanding him. if he leaves, just don't come back.

Again I ask why has your Mom stayed with him?If its her faith she has every right to get a divorce.

thanks for your comment. i understand him, that he would like to do things without "Mom and I" in his life but is that reason enough to ruin our family? he can have a relationship with other woman but he doesn't have to leave us and live in with that lady freak!

firstoff your dad did not leave you,he left your Mom

thanks for your response.

she is 25~ she doesnt need a stepmother at that age! what is your problem! fine, then if that were true, then as her stepdaughter she can now ask for money that she needs to buy "clothes" and other necessities RIGHT?! typical day living together: oh hi stepmom - i need to borrow 20 dollars - i need gasoline to get to school! can you give me some? oh sure honey let me go get my purse!

Good days.. Hmm.. different person have their own opinion. Like me I think what you have to do is prayer to God and lets God tell you through your heart whether you have to accept it or not.. may god bless you..

you erased him out of your life? well, have you heard news about your dad since then?

you're right. dad is old enough to decide for himself and i am old enough, too, to understand what's happening so i better get started and move on with mom and without dad.

thanks for your advice. it is highly appreciated.

thanks for your support. it is really hard for me to be in this situation, and so as Mom. Well, what i am thinking now is that God wouldn't give me this problem if I can't get over it. I can resolve this! Aja!

that's what i'm telling mom. we should let dad go. nothing would change if we will hold him tight. the better solution is to free him and to live our lives without him. it hurts, yes, but it will hurt more if he stays with us, knowing that his heart is somewhere else.

thanks for your comment. your advice is highly appreciated. have a nice day.

gee... thanks, aileen. you almost made me cry. dad has no right to hurt us but he still did. however, i am always here for mom.

thanks for your advice. there's no choice but to move on. mom and i have to go on with life. there's not time for too much worrying, we should act now and forget about what happened in the past.

hi mr smkwan how r u, m rajendra from india, i read your comment glad to know , great comments i agree u, thanx a alot for sending a great comment. god bless u be happy take care have a nice time.

yes, i do hope it will get better. life for me now is really tough. being an only child, i have the responsibility to take care of mom and myself.