Is is better to marry a person you love or the person who loves you

i would consider marrying only someone whom i love and also loves me as much as i do, because if its only a one way relationship i believe it won't work and wont last long. for i believe in the saying "it takes two to tango" .

The marriage will work if you love each other!...Marry a person is a big responsibilty!...It is a lifetime commitment!...lolz

Well, of course mutual love is the only way to go if someone wants to get married but for the hypothetical question you asked I would marry the one who loves me because I know I can't not to love anyone who loves and cares for me, but if I marry the one I love and she doesn't love me I can't guarantee that I can make her to love me and it would be a miserable life especially if she is in love with someone else.

There's no question two people need to love each other before they even consider marriage. If only one loves the other it's going to be one hell of a miserable marriage. ‹(°¿°)›

For me, I'll go with the one who loves me. I can't force myself to love a person who doesn't love me at all.

I feel it is better to marry with them who loves you. but the upper idea is also great.

If I fall in love with a beatiful girl like my girlfriend . I will plan married with her . But I must spend a lot of money matrimony . I must earn more money first , then I will get married . I don't want my wife suffer the poor day with us . Now I work hard , I must give her a rich life .

for me the person who loves me...

ya raveen i am fully agree with you.

i personally feel that love marriage doesn't lasts for long. but if u get married by arrange marriage then it continues for long. i have seen many relationships based on love but they failed coz of some reason or other, it is not so that u r not interested in ur partner but it happens that u take them for granted and it is the time where problem arrives. it is the root cause of divroce and then people expect too much from the relationships but they don't get enough. i also feel that u should marry the person whom u know or love.

yes it is beetter to marry the person who loves you very much

yes i feel its better to marry the person who loves u very much coz due to his love even u start loving the person and so no problem

its a typical question

i think it should be the both of you love each other ....before we enter the sacrament of marriage....wherein two become one....marriage should always be with love for LOVE is the most important ingredient to make a relationship last longer and forever....no matter what circumstances may arise....always believe the power of love

I think that love schould come of both sizes!That is how schould be normal,because if you love him and he don't where's the satisfaction?and in the contrar case also,you don't feel the happiness!

Ofcourse to the person whome I love if she loves me also but if she doesn't love i dont want to ruine her life but I will also not marry from the girl who loves me.

i think it is better to settle to one who loves you...its much more easier to fall to someone whose willing to do anything for you..

Its so diff tO answer! We must follow our heart's instinct!

marriage won't work if one doesn't love the other one. why not wait to someone who is really meant for you instead of taking risks? i believed everyone has his own destiny. :D

i think love have to be from both side