how to mend a broken heart???

You have to realize that there is someone else out there for you. You go through good and bad break ups for a reason, and as long as you learn from them, I feel that it is the experience that's perfecting you for that perfect mate. Know that you're not alone. Some people come in your life who are supposed to play a significant role, and those who choose to pass right through and do you wrong were never meant to be special enough to make an important and positive mark in your life. Don't beat yourself up, just learn from it.

Yes it is normal to think of the past. But if you still thinking of it after a month or so, isn't it odd? or something is left unclosed.

While you are young treat your heartbreaks like an old battery chuck it out and replace it then one day you will look back and wonder why you ever shed a tear....

take a piece of paper write down all your thought s on it burn it up and let everything else also get burned. Try and do some creatrive wiork, join a painting or sculpting class or anything you love as soon as you will accomplish success in that you will start to heal. Best thing to get rid of heart ache is to feel good about yourself. Tell yourself thaty it was that person's loss that he missed knowing you not your fault. You are lucky to have escaped from such fellow who was so unreliable and obviously a liar when he told you he loved you. try making a list of waht you lost and what you learned from this experience and concentrate on the learning part it will help you to move on.

Hi, life should go on. You still should continue your life, please go some where that you can meet with other people. Forget your paint because of love.

I think time is the best medicine in situaciones like these. Personally I think waiting it out is the best solution, if you rush out to be with another person thinking it'll take ur mind off things you may end up further hurting urself or even another person in the proccess. I think overcoming pain takes time, and alot of paitence, a good cry isnt a bad thing either but dont stress or depress urself over something thats truly not worth the headache, anyway goodluck and keep ur head up baby girl!

It's a matter of time. Healing process depends on how bad you'd been hurt. Time will come when you're ready to fall in love again. In as much as you would like to find someone again, just wait for the right person to knock, and you'll know by then when you're ready. If that person is the right one, all the hurt you'd experienced will vanish and you may start again.

Ofcourse you can still love again. As the old saying says 'love is sweeter the next time'. :) Ofcourse you will not forget your past experience overnight. Try to have an outlet for your passion like playing pc games, sports and exercise, etc. Friends ofcourse can releive your pain faster.