Shall I tell my wife?

Well the only thing I can tell you is put yourself directly in your wife's position. Let's say she met someone who turned out to be her high school sweetheart and she wants to go out and have fun with him. Would you want to know about it or would you be okay with her keeping it a secret from you?

Well I'm sorry ...but you are a married man. You should only have eyes for you wife! If you want to go out with other women then you should get a divorce and be single. I don't think your wife would agree to you going out with another woman. I also don't think it is appropriate. I think that you should pay attention to your wife and take her out and stop looking at other women...! How would you like your wife going out with other men?

hello friend. In my opinion.. you should not go with her... ypu should control your feelings.. You r married..and yolu have a family now... i do beleive that you should not be a cheater..If you r honest and if your love is true.. you will get that love frm your wife at some point of time..

Ya tell your wife, im sure she would be more then happy to let you go out with your old flame, even better why not just go cheat on her? i mean its seems you have no moral values now anyay or even feelings for the woman you vowed to love and honor...here's a 3rd option....try being a man

You can't control how you feel, but you can on how you act on them. Tell your wife your going to meet an old school friend for a drink, but don't get too carried away

My advice to you would be not to have mercy on your feelings. Why marry you wife in the first place? If you felt that your wife wouldnt be the ideal companion for you then you shouldn't have considered marriage in the first place. Now that you are married and are already commited thers not much you can do but to let this "lost flame" that you claim to be lost within you forever, you have to learn to forget her.

what do you want to tell your wife? that you wanna meet your ex-flame and just talk? do you think your wife will buy whatever reasons you'll give her why you wanna meet with your ex again? wives have this amazing 6th sense, sunilwason. she'd know. so the answer to your question is not about telling her. the answer is you should forget about the ex, no matter how hard it is, and just stay away. it's not right to meet with her again coz you know what intentions you have. you play with fire, you'll get burned. don't put your marriage at stake.

First, never ever put yourself in a position where cheating is even an option. If you love your wife, then avoid being around this woman likes she has the plague. Don't fall into the "one thing lead to another and the next thing I knew we were...". Second, if you decide that this woman is the one that you want, you have to end your current situation and she has to end hers before you can even proceed. This may help your respective spouses but it is the best way, in the long run. And don't forget to mourn your marriage. One month for every year of marriage, 1 week for every month, and 1 day for every week.

My own suggestion is that you should tell your wife. Also if you tell her and she does not want for you to meet with this woman then I suggest that you don't. If you really love your wife you would not want to do something behind her back as most of us to feel that it is still cheating. Also if your wife says that it is ok to go out with her but she wants to go along then I suggest that you take your wife with you. I would reccomend not doing anything at all as it will jeopardise your relationship.

If you're serious and honest, you must say no when the old flame call you back, so you have nothing to tell your wife. Otherwise, you confess that you've never forgot that woman, and if you go out with her, that doesn't mean that you cheat your wife.

why did you marry this chick if you love another?

You should tell it because my parents also experienced that things and things like that will get worse if you wouldnt tell it earlier. And it is also bad for you because you are meeting someone even if you are already married. You have promised vowed in the sanctity of marriage and your doing things like this. Your family might suffer the consequences and always remember that you dont know what you are missing until its gone.

Find out what the old flame wants first. If the flame isnt interested, there is no sense in upsetting your wife.

you should just tell your wife that you met an ex from your school days recently and if you can go out and just see what she says.

what i can understand is that you are happilly married. Why do you want to ruin your marriage. She was your past your wife is your present and future. Why do you want to destroy your preent and future for your past. Please live a happy life wtih your wife.

Try to make your heart with clean habits, love your wife and enjoy life with your wife

I can understand asper your feeling.... you do as you like' sorry buddy i have no idea because i am also same the situation...

no forget about her ...u said "lost flame" when she is already lost let her go ...don't u love ur wife ...and if u don't y did u marry her .....u r a commited man now u set a bad example for ur kids if u hv ...

If you really want to stay in contact with an "old friend", then you and your wife should maybe have dinner with this woman and her husband. You may find that the four of you could become great friends, all of you evidently have common interests. If you all get together and things don't work out, then all that is lost is the price of a dinner. I would not take a chance at ruining my marriage or my friends marriage, so if there is a chance of the old flame burning brighter than the constant steady flame you have with your wife, then I would walk away completely.

My dear, I queit understand it is difficult putting her off your mind. However, I want to ask you, do you still love your wife? Can you do anything to keep your relationship? If yes, then tell her. This new found relationship can break your home if you finds out latter. I wish you the best.