is it correct to get married against the wishes of parents
By suhail22886
@suhail22886 (74)
India
January 19, 2007 9:42am CST
am a muslim.i fell in love with a hindu girl.our parents were very dear and attached to us.definitely they wont agree for our marriage.we love each other so much and we cant live wit out each other.we have to oppose our parents to get married.we feel guilty at times because we love our parents so much.we dont want to hurt them.is it our fault to have fallen in love? is it possible to choose a gal on the basis of religion,caste,status etc.,and then lovin her/him.if that happens wil it be true love.friends..tel me wat to do.. wil it be right decision to get married opposing our parents.
2 responses
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
19 Jan 07
It's hard for me to relate to the religoius aspects of this discussion, but if it was me I wouldn't care at all what my perantes felt like. I would marry the girl I loved and don't care how they felt. I know it's harder in eastern countries :-)
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@suhail22886 (74)
• India
19 Jan 07
ya..its harder in our part of the world.the customs and traditions differ from region to region.but love is an universal feeling.i agree with you
@momathome (474)
• Canada
19 Jan 07
if you love her and she loves you than you should be together. Regardless of whether your parents agree or disagree. it's the rest of your lives not your parents lives and you should spend it with someone you want not with someone you don't want. If your parents want to keep u in their lives than they'll come around if not than it is their loss.
@suhail22886 (74)
• India
19 Jan 07
ya.. i completely agree with you.. i wil marry her and ready to face the consequences
