Does Age Matter?
By yotachan
@yotachan (135)
Indonesia
January 19, 2007 12:58pm CST
I'm loving someone right now. She's my friend at my university. She's a year older than me.
The problem is, she doesn't want a deeper relationship with me, when I asked for it.
I asked her friends to give me an opinion, and she said maybe that I, the male, is younger than her, and she would be afraid of our relationship.
I love her, I want to make her happy, because she had made me happy before. If I could make her happy, why not?
I'm not a kid anymore. I want to get love.
Please give me your opinion. Thanks before.
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6 responses
@mansha (6298)
• India
20 Jan 07
love is blind in the begining but nas year pass away it can get eyesight too then what will happen? If the gir;l has refused youre love for any reason, silly or not and if you really lovwe her you should respect her decision and stay away. You only have written, you want her to be happy then make her happy by respecting her wishes and her way of thinking. If you pursue her she may consent by being pressurised and get confused as what she wants but if you give her space and time to think she may even come back to you too. Be her friend and not lover and let the destiny take its own course.
@tintusam (1168)
• India
22 Jan 07
dear friend i dont think age is a problem in love...you know my girlfriend is more than 8 months older than me....she knows that...she loves me aload...me too loves her...never get tensed yar...yar you are a male...remember that...a guy of 15 is dangerous as a guy of 30..u got na what i am saying...no problems yar...just go ahead with straight and cool head...i wish you a warm and bright future
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@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
Age doesnt really matter in a relationship so long as the both of you can still relate and communicate with each other well. In your case, maybe instead of asking her friends about it,you should ask the girl directly about it, as to why she doesnt want to have a deeper relationship with you. Maybe she has other reasons and not the age problem. But if it really is the age that she's concerned about, then you can make her understand that even if you're younger than her, you are matured enough already to handle a relationship and you can prove it to her by giving you a chance. It's true that some women, take for example me,prefer older men in a relationship because I think and feel thay older men are more matured.But im not closing myself entirely to men younger than me as long as they can prove to me that they are capable of handling a relationship in a matured way. Especially if he's just one year younger.
@victorwzj (539)
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22 Jan 07
Age does not matter but most of the girl want their better half older than her. If both of you love each other then it doesn't matter or else you can find a better one. you are still young, no need to hold on to someone that doesn't love you as much as you love him. My mother is older than my father 1 year and still they were happy couple. hope this help you.
