Have you still got your wedding dress?

Ireland
January 19, 2007 3:20pm CST
Well, have you still got it? Would you like to wear it again? I still have mine. I'd give anything to wear it again. So much so that I was thinking of organising a Wedding Dress Ball for charity. People could wear their wedding dresses, or they could just wear a gown. The men would dress in Black Tie.
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@inked4life (4224)
• United States
19 Jan 07
I'm cheating a little bit by responding to this one...I still have my kilt (you'd be horrified by how many people over here call it a skirt or a dress), and would love to be able to wear it more often to xmas parties and the like, but I'd have to shave off about 2 and a half stone to do it. This is the year though...it's my goal to wear it at my wifes office xmas party this year.
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• Ireland
19 Jan 07
Excellent! Kilts would be allowed at the WEdding Dress Ball as well. Do you think you can make it to Ireland for it?
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• Ireland
19 Jan 07
Great! That's 4 of us so far. Oh......and our respective partners brings it to 8!!! Oh, what a night!!!! :)
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• United States
19 Jan 07
absolutely...LOL
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@Eskimo (2315)
19 Jan 07
Er - no, don't think I would look very cute in one, wouldn't fit me anyway, all my wife's good cooking has gone straight to my stomach - a tradition in West of Scotland. My wife still has her's again, may not fit her any more. Are you suggesting that the men only wear a Black Tie? As for people wearing wedding dresses, I saw Richard Branson wearing one on T.V. thought he looked disgusting. What charity are you suggesting for the Ball? It's probably too far for me to travel to but I could send a donation.
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
Kilt would be fine. I look forward to seeing you and Ink with kilts in tow.......well.....kilts ON actually.
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@Eskimo (2315)
19 Jan 07
ps If I do manage to come, could I wear a kilt instead? only wore one twice so far, both to weddings. (brother - since divorced, and my daughter).
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• United States
19 Jan 07
I still have wedding dress and I am divorced! It is a beautiful dress. Of course I will never wear it again, but I am saving it for my daughter to have when she grows up. I would be honored for her to wear it, but if she would just like it as a keepsake that is fine too.
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• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I'm sure she'll be delighted to have it.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Jan 07
Hi Biddy no sorry I haven't got mine anymore I threw it the Day I got divorced I wanted nothing left of that Marriage I know it sounds awful but even my Wedding Day was a bad Day so it did nothing for me But you seem to have a good Idea there go for it
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• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I'm sorry to hear that Gabs. BTW, hope everything went well for you this week with the move.
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@cupoftea (714)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Yes I still have my wedding dress. My mom saved hers also but she made it into my communion dress and she still has it. I'm not that good at sewing but I hope maybe one of my 3 daughters would like to wear it someday for thier wedding.
@cupoftea (714)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Your idea sounds good but I dont think I could ever fit into my dress again.
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• Ireland
3 Feb 07
It's lovely that the dress can be passed down through generations of the family.
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• Canada
20 Jan 07
I don't have my wedding dress from my first wedding... I kept it for almost 20 years (from the wedding day), even though I didn't know what I'd do with it. Then, I asked my daughters if either of them would wear it or want it and they said no. Their relationship with their father is degenerating quickly and they didn't feel an attachment to it. So, I donated it to the Drama department of their high school, as they said they could find many uses for such a gown. I felt better about not just pitching it in the trash! My second wedding dress was actually black velvet ... and I do still have that one! BittyBiddy, would I stick out like a sore thumb if I don't have a white dress??? LOL!
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• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I don't think you'd stick out like a sore thumb at all. I'd imagine there would be lots of "bridesmaids" there too who would wear dresses of all different colours. Black velvet sounds amazing.
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
20 Jan 07
i burned mine along with my marriage certificate about 3 month after my husband walked out on me.
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@babykay (2131)
• Ireland
20 Jan 07
Thats a really good idea, a charity ball for a good cause where we got to wear our wedding dresses. It doesn't seem to be fashionable at all for people to wear white, unless its white tight trousers (which lets face it, you have to have a body mass index of 18 and be around that age to wear!). I love white and I would still fit into my dress to as I only got married very recently! Let me know about this ball BittyBiddy and I will surely attend. Kay
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• Ireland
3 Feb 07
All these positive replies are making me itch to really do this. :)
• Ireland
19 Jan 07
I would love to go to the ball, but I think even if I still have my wedding dress, I would look rediculous in it at my age. Besides I might just need to add about six inches to the waistline. Let us all know if you are going ahead with the ball, and I might consider buying a nice wedding sort of suit. Would that be acceptable?
• Ireland
19 Jan 07
Yes, that would be great! It's good to get these ideas from those who don't still have their dresses. I don't think I'd fit into mine at the moment but by the time I'd have a wedding dress ball I might.
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@ilunice (946)
• Netherlands
20 Jan 07
That would be lovely. Please send the invitation early nough so we can participate. If you don't mind a helping hand, I am always available.
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• Ireland
3 Feb 07
Thank you ilunice. That would be lovely.
@kareng (61739)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Yes, I still have mine. It is boxed and sealed and I hope that one of my daughters will wear it one day. My oldest forgot that I had it and bought one on the spur of the moment. Sounds like a fun event..you should plan it!
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I have still to buy a box for my dress.
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@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
19 Jan 07
That sounds really exciting, I believe there would be alot of memories going around in that room..Very good thought, Keep us posted if you go through with it...
• Ireland
19 Jan 07
I'll let you know if I decide to do it, yes. Wouldn't it be great?
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
21 Jan 07
Yes, I still have my wedding dress and always will. My mother didn't keep good care of her wedding dress (kept it on a wire hanger in the basement) so when we were younger we play dress up with it. That thing is so tattered an torn. I don't even know what happened to it. I had mine preserved. It's still in the box too. Who knows, maybe one day I'll wear it on one of our anniversaries (if I can still fit into it, that is).
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@asmoyaho (177)
• Egypt
6 Feb 07
I think you more carefulling thann your mam but may be yours was more fashion and expensive than your mam's one
• United States
3 Feb 07
I don't have mine, "cause it was borrowed... :(
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@anja31 (707)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
Yes I do. I have still my weddingdress. I am not sure if I would like to wear it agagin
@emmaoxley (525)
21 Jan 07
My dress was rented but if I did own it I would have burned it by now. I got married young and had to pay for it all on my own so went to this lady who had this dress that I was kind of talked into renting even though I hated it. Me being very soft and naive didn't have the guts to tell her I hated it as I didn't want to hurt her feelings and the fact that it was 2 sizes too big!!! Well on my wedding day, I felt like a toilet roll doll, the underskirt kept dropping down and I felt a right frump. Next year is my tenth anniversary and I plan on renewing my vows in a dress I love, that makes me feel beautiful.
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• United States
20 Jan 07
I didn't get married in a dress. T-shirt & blue jeans. I still have the T-shirt, lol. We eloped on a road trip to Florida back in '93, lol. I like your idea for a ball tho. You should go through with it, it would be a lot of fun.
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@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
20 Jan 07
Well I don't have my wedding dress per-say but I was the groom so may I say that I still have that same suit from 25 years ago this April. Now as for my lovely bride yes she has still got her wedding dress and she can still fit in it. I on the other hand just keep my suit in the closet. :)
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@ladybear (128)
• Denmark
20 Jan 07
I still have my wedding dress and would never think of giving it away. A good friend made it for me because we didn't have alot of money to hold our wedding for. I think the charity ball sounds like a wonderful idea. You will have to post pictures in here from it for those of os that are from other countries.
• United States
20 Jan 07
i still have mine and always will. it was my mothers and its very special to me. i might let my daughters wear it when they get married, but i want it back so i can store it.
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