my older brother, please help..

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my older brother is 3 year older than me. at hight school (i remember) that he stolled mom jewelry and don't come home for a month. mon and dad was dead worryed. then in college we can call it expensive college in surabaya city, which is (UBAYA) he got drop out. the college payment for him is more than me(ITATS) and my younger brother(UNAIR).and then he run away not studying college and hanging around with some friends. in idul fitri never came home and visit mom until 15 years.he just call and send my mom some money just enaught to have some ice cream. after me and my younger brother finish college,he came home with a wife.so he get married without telling my parents. a women that he assumed his wive is low educated and she is ever hide my shoes in her room. she stoled it! she never help my mom cooking and clean the house or wash her own dished.she make my mom like her maid!! first of all it was ok when my brother have a job.as a driver.before that he just playing play station all days. and now he quit his job for the only reason that my cousins over him a job that he never call. .help me deal these situation, please.. oh, did i mention that he also have 2 years old boy which is make my parent wouldn't dare to kick my brother and my sister in law out of the house? to teach them a lesson? and i in the diffrent city far away from my mom. im worry so much.