I want to dump my girlfriend. How do I do it politely ?
By 44244N
@44244N (98)
India
6 responses
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
hmmmm dump isnt sounds good. Its like your refering to a thing that you use and when you dont want it anymore you just throw it away. I dont get you point in there, you havent exactly tell why you should break up on her. YOu dont love her anymore? if it is then you can tell her honestly but nicely that she will not be hurt like dont use the word dump. Tell her about what you feel honestly so that when you parted ways your still be friends and no hurt feelings.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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21 Jan 07
hi, maybe tell your girlfriend that you rushed into a relationship with her quickly and you feel that you aren't ready for it just yet and maybe still be friends together?!
@puma_nz (999)
• New Zealand
21 Jan 07
Dont sleep with her!! geeee your only playin her if you do that.. Be a man and spare the girl some grief and tell her straight up! Otherwise you are gonna get yourself in deeper sh!te than you thought.. she will never forgive you for not being honest.
@victorwzj (539)
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23 Jan 07
There are no easy way or polite way, just tell her that you want to brake up. Say something about our relationship is not going anywhere and it is best if we separated. Take all the blame do not mention anything bad about her. you need to take her feeling in to consideration.
There are some "don't" when dumping. Do not dump you girlfriend on the phone, email , sms or similar method. Tell her face to face. She deserved to hear the reason in person since she putting so much love in to the duration when you together .
Picking the date to dump your girlfriend is also important. Do not choose the date when it is near valentine, birthday , christmas and any date that the couple usually together. If you still want to be friend with her trust me and take what I saying in to consideration. All the best and good luck