vdhill

@vdhill (65)

United States • Age 80

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Somebody from Mylot wants to meet me - What should I do?

kumikosuzuki83 @kumikosuzuki83 (161) • Japan 17 Jan 07

I've been chatting to a man online who I met on Mylot for a week or so now. He seems really nice and it turns out that he lives near where I am. Last night, he told me that he wants to meet me? What should I do? Do you think...

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vdhill If I was interested, I think I'd schedule a Saturday afternoon lunch date at a quiet restauant. I'd drive myself to the restaurant, rather than have him pick me up. If things went well, I might consider another date with him.

9 Feb 07

What's the most touching song you ever heard ?

shambuca @shambuca (2524) • United States 8 Feb 07

And why does it effect you that way? "Seasons in the sun"---my best friend and I used to sing that song when we were little and now that she's gone it touches me in a way no other song can, it's liek she was trying to tell me...

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vdhill There are so many beautiful songs, I don't think I could come up with just one. 'My Way' by Sinatra comes to mind. I don't know why I like that song; I think it's because it speaks of maturity--of a person accepting responsibility for his or her mistakes in...

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5 Songs That Make You Happy

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 7 Feb 07

Can you name 5 songs that make you happy every time you hear them-- and tell me why? Mine are: 1. Daydream (Lovin' Spoonful)- Because my Grandpop used to sing it to me 2. Come Clean (Hilary Duff) - Because my daughter loves...

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vdhill 1. I'd Give Anything to Fall in Love, Levert - Because I never found true love, but always wanted it. 2. Lulu's Back in Town - Because it's a great Louis Armstrong song. 3. My Way, by Sinatra - Because it has a depth to it. 4. Come to Jesus, Unknown...

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Would you change the color of your eyes?

chanfrado @chanfrado (1157) • Portugal 6 Feb 07

There are many people that would like to change the eyes color just to be more accepted by other people (an example is a girl that wants boys to look more to her, and she thinks changing the color of her eyes to blue or green can...

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vdhill What a wonderful flair you have. Your entire soul can be felt through the depth of your writing.

7 Feb 07

Shyness - have you ever been told you are shy?

Pigglies @Pigglies (9329) • United States 6 Feb 07

Sometimes people tell me that I'm shy. But generally, they don't notice it much. I don't think I'm nearly as shy as I used to be. But apparently, I'm wrong. Today my professor told me that I'm shy and should tell myself in...

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vdhill Shyness has to do with feelings of superiority. If you want to get over being shy, stop thinking you're more complex than the rest of us. We are all special and we're all unique. There is no one else in the world like me, just as there's nobody else like...

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friends are best enemies not bestfriends?how true is it?

yvonitz_marian @yvonitz_marian (117) • Philippines 27 Jan 07

hello people of mylot!!do u have a bestfriend or just a close friend of yours?do u think that they are true enough to give all your trust on them? advices pls.....

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vdhill My closest friend was my worst enemy. I learned from that and keep friends at a proper distance now.

7 Feb 07

do you feel betrayed if your friends are friends with your enemies?

mridula123 @mridula123 (734) • India 7 Feb 07

Well...i have a friend who is now a friend of someone who used to be my friend, but now is my enemy. Actually i dont mind it, but sometimes it annoys me tht my friend would wanna be friends with someone though she knows that...

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vdhill "Friends" who are friends with your enemies are not your friends. In fact, friends who befriend your enemies are your enemies as well. Make no mistake about that.

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i love a girl but i am unable to tell her.how shud i approach?

bilalalikhan1 @bilalalikhan1 (270) • India 2 Feb 07

i fear she might refuse me.thats what makes me afraid.how shud i approach the whole issue?

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vdhill If she refuses you, life will go on. Make a move, or move on.

7 Feb 07

do you still fall in love if the girl is 20 years older than you?

sharon1980 @sharon1980 (116) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

I have an ex boyfriend before and we are good friends right now but he is involve with a woman 20 years older than him for more than 2 years now. I just want to know, isn't that weird? The woman isn't really that attractive and...

age gaps

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vdhill It's actually not weird at all. For women, younger men has been, for the most part, an untapped resource. These matches can be very rewarding, for both parties, so stop poking fun at your ex. He's probably quite comfortable with this woman.

6 Feb 07

Good afternoon myLot

NJ Chicaa @NJChicaa (121035) • United States 3 Jun

Hello everyone. I hope your day is going well. It is 82 degrees F and sunny here at the Jersey Shore. Today has been an annoying day. I had court this morning so I had to take a half day. My lawyer asked for my case to be...

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vdhill Hello everyone. I hope your day is going well. It is 82 degrees F and sunny here at the Jersey Shore. Today has been an annoying day. I had court this morning so I had to take a half day. My lawyer asked for my case to be pushed to 11 am instead of 9...

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Im Falling In Love With My X-Husband,What Will I do???

Gwapako_28 @Gwapako_28 (2140) • Philippines 25 Jan 07

After 3 years of our separation,i told myself that i wont be with my husband ever again.He abandoned us and he went to another city.Now, he came back with a nursing degree.He told me that he do it for us.For our better future.So...

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vdhill If he truely isn't involved with someone else, I think I might give this man another chance. He did a terrible thing by abandoning you, but he's made a change for the better in his life and I think I'd remarry him.

26 Jan 07

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can u give me some tips on how to manage time?

yvonitz_marian @yvonitz_marian (117) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

hi there, people of mylot..i just want to ask for some tips that will help me manage my time especially time with my love ones...thanks..im always busy because i study and at the same time i work...

time management

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vdhill Great tips!

26 Jan 07

We almost lost Blue today

Diana @dya80dya (36905) 26 May

I went outside for a few minutes with my mom. When we came back Blue was near the door. He meowed at the door after we entered the house. We closed the door and he insisted and meowed for a few minutes. I opened the door because I...

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vdhill I went outside for a few minutes with my mom. When we came back Blue was near the door. He meowed at the door after we entered the house. We closed the door and he insisted and meowed for a few minutes. I opened the door because I thought that something was...

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Adultery

hopeful28 @hopeful28 (1439) • Singapore 26 Jan 07

Why is it that there is such a thing called Adultery? Why should someone allow himself/herself to fall in love with another person's spouse? I was guilty of this many years ago but I will never forget the experience because till...

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vdhill Women, in particular, "allow" themselves to fall in love with married men out of lonliness and selfishness. Because they find themselves alone and unloved, they completely ignore the man's marital status and indulge themselves anyway. There comes a point in...

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What can be forgiven?

MissRissa74 @MissRissa74 (472) • United States 25 Jan 07

Is there anything that you've managed to forgive your spouse/partner for and it seems that no one can understand how or why you did? Most people I know just don't see how I could've stayed with a man who cheated on me over and...

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vdhill You don't owe anyone an explanation. What is unforgivable to me may not be to you, so what I might think is irrelevant. Make your own decisions and don't apologize for them. People who ask you why you stay are out of bounds. Simply tell them that you've...

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please don't force me to talk to my ex boyfriend again!

maryannemax @maryannemax (12156) • Sweden 23 Jan 07

i met my ex boyfriend's mom last sunday. she keeps on calling me saying that she wants to see me. out of respect, i met her. however, she always asked me to please see her son and have a talk together. she wants us to be together...

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vdhill If you've told this woman how you feel, you have no further obligation to her. When she calls again, tell her that you are not going to see her son and you would rather she didn't call you anymore. You'll have to be firm with her; otherwise, she will...

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