looks, personality, or money?

United States
January 22, 2007 7:25am CST
Which matters most when you're looking for a mate? Does their financial situation come into play? I've met some people who wouldn't give an otherwise awesome person a chance just because he didn't make enough money as she did.
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• India
22 Jan 07
personality the one i like with my mate.....
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@crom07 (233)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
I rather choose personality, it means to me that environmentaly the partner that im looking for is some how educated, got a social and simple life. money wont last and the looks wont last either.
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@ligent (60)
• China
22 Jan 07
I thought what I had seen afew days ago.Choosing a mate Is just like a diector choosing an actor.Saying art first but choosing looks. But as to me,I put personality first,looks second.
@hopeful28 (1439)
• Singapore
22 Jan 07
To me, personality will be my first consideration. Other factors like looks and money are not as important. Looks will fade with time although it will be nice to look at someone and feel comfortable - but doesn't have to be very handsome. Where money is concerned, as long as the guy is responsible with the money he earns and doesn't require the wife to pay for everything just because she is earning more, I don't see it as a problem.
@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
22 Jan 07
Personality is definitely what is important to me. It doesn't matter to me how much money a person makes as I am not the materialistic type and I don't care what they look like either, so long as they are clean. In order to have a strong relationship though, a person needs to have a kind, caring personality. I love humour in a person also.
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• India
22 Jan 07
i wanted to u remember u that a rose shines for a few days we love to watch after his few days what will be the rose look..........................like.... frnds i remembered u bcoz, the personality,looks or money is not permanent it is temporary in my opinion the mate should have a nice character, love and effection in his heart, if a man is not considered even with a single among those he is not a liable to become a mate so plz... chose among those the things to have a happy life and future
• United States
22 Jan 07
I go with personality. Money can always be gotten in the future. I've been like this all of my life. Money doesn't make you happy. The person you want to be with does.