jllatham

@jllatham (49)

United States • Age 37

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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18 and Getting Married

mayjones @mayjones (19) • United States 5 Feb 07

Okay, my son wants to marry his girlfriend but they fight all the time over stupid stuff. Now she thinks she is going to have a babby. I told my son if you don't honestly love her then do't marry her. You can still be a daddy to...

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jllatham It's better to be in the child's life, and be happily unmarried than to suffer in a marriage like that and have the child listen to that crap as well.

5 Feb 07

What ice cream flavor do you like most??

anne_143god @anne_143god (5387) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

What ice cream flvor do you want to eat most often?? Are you kind of a ice cream fanatic that use to eat often?? Do you prefer chocolate, vanilla, or any other flavor on your ice cream and what it is??

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jllatham Moose Tracks! The kind with the huge chunks of fudge in it, mini peanut butter cups, thin strips of chocolate syrup, all mixed into vanilla ice cream. mmmmm.

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Grandparents spanking your kids?-what do you think?

mckenziemom @mckenziemom (522) • United States 31 Jan 07

I spent a couple of weeks visiting my folks last summer and this issue came up. My father had mentioned to my husband that he had a belt handy just in case he thought one of the kids might need to be spanked. My husband was...

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jllatham I'd tell them to back off. Discipline is the parent's job, not the grandparent's.

1 Feb 07

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do you provide more toys to your child to divert his attention?

pink_passion @pink_passion (279) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

many moms do this so they can do more household chores

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jllatham My one year old doesn't really like his toys as much as he does "real people toys", so I just take him along with me when I do my chores, and he "helps" me.

1 Feb 07

I'm 19 and I'm losing a lot my hair

monsooner @monsooner (467) • India 24 Jan 07

Am i getting bald? Premature balding? No way out of this?

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jllatham My husband started losing his hair at 19. I'd go to the doctor and get some help with it unles you think you might look good without some of your hair. You never know- my husband looks very handsome and extremely sexy with his high hairline, and I wouldn't...

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breastfeeding vs. bottlefeeding

jllatham @jllatham (49) • United States 24 Jan 07

I breastfeed my son, but everyone I meet (except a select few) is bottlefeeding or has bottlefed their babies and they usually try to make me feel bad or different for breastfeeding. I just thought breastfeeding was the most...

breastfeeding

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What do you call the Time of the Month

destinycole @destinycole (827) 24 Jan 07

When talking about your periods, do you have a special name for that "Time of the Month" do you just say "period" or "menstrual cycle" or do you say "womens things" Are we still so shy about the most natural thing a woman...

menstrual cycle

period

womens things

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jllatham I just call it "my period", or "my woman thing" if I'm being cute.

24 Jan 07

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Carrot is going back to being purple!!! The color purple is back!!!

brokentia @brokentia (10389) • United States 23 Jan 07

Did you know the orange carrot we know today used to actually be purple? Up until the 17th century, the carrot was purple. However, because the Dutch flag was orange, the Dutch wanted to show their patriotism by changing the...

carrot

purple

purple carrot

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jllatham Wow. I think I'd try a purple carrot maybe once, then go back to eating my orange ones because they're bound to be less expensive.

24 Jan 07

Do your children have a MySpace?

brihanna @brihanna (381) • United States 23 Jan 07

Both of my teens have a myspace. As a way for me to keep aware of thier activities, I have spyware on my computer, And I have a fake profile. I can view most everything they do or say, as I have been accepted as thier friend...

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jllatham That sounds a little extreme to me, but I don't have teenagers (yet), so I guess I really don't know how I'd do things. It's definitely invading their privacy, though.

24 Jan 07

wax, shave, or veet?

jllatham @jllatham (49) • United States 24 Jan 07

which is the most cost-effective? I usually shave my legs, but I can't stand the cuts and razor bumps I sometimes get. The Veet cream works, but hair comes back after one day and it's pretty expensive since you only use the tube...

beauty

razor bumps

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Enjoy Reading

pooksywooksy @pooksywooksy (1006) • Indonesia 23 Jan 07

Why does people enjoy reading books so much? I could understand some people bring their book and read it in the toilet. Some people go to the library, find a quiet place and then start to read. Some people just read e-books...

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jllatham Books allow you to experience things that you couldn't do otherwise. If you can relate to the subject matter in a novel, you get really, really into it and everything outside of what you're reading kind of fades away. It's stress relief. I like books that I...

24 Jan 07

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CS or Normal?

clod0327 @clod0327 (817) • Philippines 23 Jan 07

For mothers out there, if you will be given a chance to choose, what method would you select to deliver your baby, is it via Ceasarian Section or via Normal Delivery. If you select via Normal delivery, would you opt to go for...

pregnancy

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jllatham My son was breech, and I had no choice but to have a C-section since he was premature and the labor wasn't progressing. I'm kind of glad I did, and I wouldn't change anything that happened for the world.

24 Jan 07

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Used bookstores vs. retail bookstores

jllatham @jllatham (49) • United States 24 Jan 07

Does anyone else prefer used bookstores over places like Barnes and Noble? I can't stand buying books new. Used bookstores feel so much more personal and fun to me.

books

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Does anyone use a wok?

jllatham @jllatham (49) • United States 24 Jan 07

I'm considering buying a wok, since I stir-fry a lot and I really enjoy asian food. I don't know what kind to buy, though. Is it worth it? What kind do you have, and is it better to go cheaper?

cooking

How to stock an alochol cabinet

jllatham @jllatham (49) • United States 24 Jan 07

I got a cocktail making kit for christmas, with mixes, etc, but every cocktail recipe has different ingredients like triple sec, grenadine, vodka, rum, mixers, etc. I don't want to buy everything all at once, but I do want to...

drinking

what is my space?

baietzika @baietzika (586) • Romania 24 Jan 07

is it kind of like mylot? how much do they pay? can someone give me a link? i want an account too.

my space

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jllatham Myspace is a social networking site that is used to make friends or to catch up with old friends. It does not pay its users. the address is www.myspace.com

24 Jan 07

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If you fall in love with your friend's husband, would you reveal it to her?

pink_passion @pink_passion (279) • Philippines 24 Jan 07

no, i won't. i'd rather keep it to myself but i'll do everything to let go of the feeling. friendship is more important to me

friendship

love

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jllatham Nope. Friendship is too important to ruin over something like that. I'd straighten up and avoid her husband at all costs. Ruining marriages is not a good thing.

24 Jan 07

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Do you like money?

mark249 @mark249 (337) • Italy 22 Jan 07

I like it enough and you?

business

money

people

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jllatham I love money. It's nice to be able to eat and buy nice things and all.

22 Jan 07

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Licquer Before Beer, Your In the Clear, Beer Before Licquer, Your even Sicker

benks420 @benks420 (215) • Canada 22 Jan 07

Has anyone heard the expression "Licquer before beer your in the clear, Beer before licquer, your even sicker"? The ending varies between that and "you get sicker quicker." I heard it from one of my friends after a night where I...

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jllatham I usually go by the better, but lesser known "Alcohol- drink too much and you're going to end up with your head in the toilet and your date with someone else"

22 Jan 07

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