Falling in love with the wrong man.

love this man - nice looking
United States
January 22, 2007 6:35pm CST
Have you ever fell in love with the wrong guy? You know they say that when you meet someone sometimes they are there to teach you a lesson and not there for you to be with always. I fell in love with a younger guy I was 32 he was 25 man thinking about it now I had to have been crazy. He was 7 years younger then me at the time I didn't trip people used to tell me I robbed the cradle I guess I did lol. We didn't work out he wasn't grown up enough yet, I wish I would have learned the lesson before I fell in love with him. I guess it was fun teaching him a few things (wink) lol. So has anyone fell in love with the wrong guy before?
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@linda345 (2661)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Yeah I feel in love with the wrong guy or at least thought I was in love with this guy. He was three years younger than me. Now when I look back on it he was sort of irrirating. To make things worse, I got pregnant. We broke up, but when the baby was born we got back together for a few years. He just kept getting on my nerves and he drove my older two kids crazy, so I left him.
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24 Jan 07
for this time the answer is no...
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I did fall in love with a guy that was a year younger than me. It was fun while it lasted, but we had to go our separate ways. He wasn't ready to be a man that I wanted.
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
23 Jan 07
i fell in love with an older man with 3 kids, and i thought that we were actually going to go somewhere, but i guess it was more a physical attraction for him and not as emitional as i thought. we started off as friends and became very close, i helped him through his wife leaving him and the kids, and then her coming back and then leaving again, then kidnapping the kids. we would spend hours on the phone at night just talking about things. finally i told him that i loved him and wanted to be more serious instead of friends with benefits, and he was like i have found someone that i have been dating for like 2 weeks now, i just haven't told you because i didn't know how. my heart was so broken, not because he didn't love me back, but because i lost one of my best friends and i felt so used.
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
23 Jan 07
I definately have! Sometimes you want more out of a man than he can give you. As much as you try to change him to be your match you eventually have to move on and know that you two will never get anywhere! The next time around though you know the signs of that person and you won';t make the same mistake again. Hence Live and Learn!
@dino1984 (30)
• Sri Lanka
23 Jan 07
I think age is no barrier but firstly check on what he is looking for. Is it a serious relationship or just physical satisfaction which is more likely to occur in this case. So before you go to the next step please take some time to really get to know the person....