Rich man
By danjenkins
@danjenkins (646)
United States
January 23, 2007 6:04am CST
I am the richest man on earth, because riches do not consist in the abundance of things. I am rich because I have the best wife on earth. I am rich because I have a wonderful daughter and an incredible grandson. I am rich because I have health, sight, great hearing, can walk on my own; I care enough about others to help them in ways that will really help them (hand-ups rather than hand-outs). My vocations are fulfilling and meet my financial needs. I'm at peace with my Creator. What can I say? I'm rich.
Please share why you are rich too.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
25 Jan 07
I have a son. Even if I do not have else, I can say I am rich. His smile worth the most in the world. I am glad and proud that he is mine.
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Fix that idea in your memory .. just in case he takes a detour from being a great son once he becomes a teen-ager.
Today I'm alive. I have no promise of tomorrow. I have only these hours to make a difference for someone else. And, that will make all the difference for me.
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@keepinghome (270)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Thank you for sharing your riches here at myLot! What a joy and blessing to know of the bounty of your personal wealth. I too have been thus blessed in my home and family life, in my health, and most importantly in my relationship with my Creator God. My relationship with Jesus Christ, has stripped my of the bondage of sin I was in, and freed me into a world of grace, mercy, abundant in Love. I am eternally thankful for the riches and treasures I enjoy here, but more so for those awaiting me in the Kingdom. Be blessed!
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@joshua_77 (612)
• India
24 Jan 07
well,good to heard this from you, true words is store up for yourselves treasures in heaven,where moth and rust do not destroy,and where thieves do not break in and steal For where your treasures is,there your heart will be also.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Ted Turner owns more land than any other individual in the world .. over 1 million acres around the world .. but he is envious of me, because I am TRULY rich!
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@smacksman (6053)
•
23 Jan 07
A man truely blessed!
I am in much the same position, thankfully, but thanks to you, my happy position has been made even happier.
We are rich indeed!
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
23 Jan 07
RIGHT ON!!!!!!! Oooops .. I'm showing my age. Thanks for writing and proving my point .. if you want to be happy, act happy. Faith trumps feelings every time.
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Thank-you for your post .. friends are necessary for a rich and fulfilling life, so you are indeed rich and blessed.
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@Mommiewendy (106)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Great post! And I say I am the richest woman on earth because I have a wonderful husband that would do anything for me and my son, I have a son that loves me! I have a wonderful life! :)
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
30 Jan 07
When we focus upon our blessings instead of our problems, we start to realize how rich we are! And, money does not make a person rich. Family, friends and quality living for the right reasons is what really makes us rich.
@craftwave (1338)
• United States
24 Jan 07
What a wonderful way to start my day by reading your discussion. It brought a smile to my face. I too am rich. When I count my blessings instead of my problems then I find I'm blessed indeed.
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@craftwave (1338)
• United States
25 Jan 07
You said it. For me if it was just about money I know of easier ways that don't take to long to do and makes a bunch more then I do here. I enjoy reading the posts and helping others when I can. And Along the way i have found out some very interesting information that I would otherwise never have thought of researching.
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I woke up this morning to find six more pages of responses to this discussion. So, it is obvious that most of the people on mylot.com are about a lot more than just money. It is great to see people sharing with each other about the things that really matter in life.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
These kind of riches aren't a single pie. The source of our riches are inexhaustible, so there cannot be any competition. Thanks for adding to the discussion ... we need to remind each other of how wealthy we are in things that really count.
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
23 Jan 07
So glad for you, you seem to have all your ducks in a row! Myself, I am rich with family. We communicate and share so much. Have a good mind in my head and am able to share it with others. Have a pretty good job which is fun and pays me. Good friends, great pets, large piece of land in the country to call home. Comfortable with my Creator and am eager to do His will. Good glasses to see even better. A positive attitude tops all this off. These things are not all we have since we also have a promise for when our time here is done. That makes us truly rich!
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Thank-you for participating .. who said that positive ideas are not popular? ;)
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@blueskies (1186)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I am rich in similar ways. I have a wondeful spouse and beautiful children who love me. I have a nice warm home filled with nice things. We always have food to eat. We have pets to give love and love us in return. Life is good :)
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Outstanding! Life is good, with or without money, for those who expect life to be good, and who know that what we own is not the standard for wealth.
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@richboy7 (276)
• Thailand
24 Jan 07
I am rich because I have happiness with everything I do.
I can smile even though I face the problem.
I will do my best and let the rest on my Lord.
I am not worry and I am not hungry.
Even I do I still be happy because I know that Soneone love me and care me.
I mean a lot to Him.
He could give His life to help me.
So my life cause a lot.
That's why I am rich.
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Wow, that is very uplifting! .. Honestly, I feel very envious coz i've been wanting to feel all that.. still incomplete. . i really agree with you, material things not a big deal for me either. All i want is the real happiness i've been longing for and not "reel". Can u be my friend? I can see that you are capable of doing some psychological help to me...I'll gladly appreciate that.
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Yes, I am your friend.
1. Choose to be happy .. not because of how you feel, but because you CHOOSE to look at life with an attitude of gratitude.
2. Change your perspective. A pessimist sees the problems in every opportunity. An optimist sees the OPPORTUNITY in every problem!!!
3. Get into communication with your Creator, God, and learn what HE values in you and in your life.
4. Understand and accept that NOONE owes you anything. You've been given everything you need to be a "success" in life. Therefore, since you have abilities, talents, and opportunities, you choose whether you will be a victim or an overcomer.
5. Focus upon others rather than focusing upon yourself. There is always someone who is worse off than you .. help them.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
25 Jan 07
You would not believe how shy I was as a child. I would blush crimson when the teacher called on me. I was a top student, and knew information, but was so afraid of people. Now people look at me and cannot imagine me ever being lacking in confidence. This proves a point: if you BEHAVE enthusiastic, you will BECOME enthusiastic; if you ACT confident, you will start feeling confident.
Think how much more fun life is when meeting new people is viewed as an adventure and a learning experience, rather than fearing what they may think about me! They probably think a lot less about me than I want to know ... in other words, we are a lot more important person in the view of other people in our own mind than we truly are in their mind.
Fear is just faith in reverse. Fear expects something bad, hurtful, embarrassing, etc., to happen. Faith believes something good, helpful, uplifting, etc., to happen. How many things we fear never happen at all?
When you think about that .. realize how much time and energy you have put into fearing things .. then you will realize you have been paralyzed by the FEAR of something happening, not the reality of something bad happening.
It is a waste of time, emotional energy, physical energy and more time, to live according to fear.
Edison said: (he invented the light bulb) .. "I have not had 10,000 failures. I have found 10,000 things that DO NOT WORK.!" Point? You can't find success by avoiding things that might not work!
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
What can i say? .. very enriching and very enlightening. Read it a couple of times, absorbing every word u said, sinking it in my mind. U don't know how happy i am to find someone here who is very willing to help out others in times like these... Not thinking of the bucks i'll earn here, thinking of new friends i've found like you, thanking you and will forever be grateful for these. . Let's keep in touch okay. Thanks again. Godbless!
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
25 Jan 07
:) Nunya .. but, I think you prove the one point about pessimists and optimists .. Pessimists look at the opportunity and see the problems; optimists look at the problem and see opportunities. Marriage is about helping and protecting and loving each other, not about keeping score.
@rurita (212)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 07
wow you seem are a very lucky and rich man :)
good for you ^^
its seem that i'm rich too ^^ i have a good family, good parents sister and brother, aunt, uncle,grandma, but i dont have a good husband, because i dont married yet hahahaah.....
and i've God that give me all the best for me ^^
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Thanks for your response and participation. I've been able to give EVERY response a positive rating and wish I could mark all of the reponses as the best one. However, they only let me do that for one response post.
@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Good for you! It's really nice to hear from someone that he considers himself rich not because of the material treasures he has but mainly because of the blessings that is coming to his life. I hope you continue to become happy. I also consider myself rich because my parents are still together. I have a wonderful brother. I am doing good on my school and on my little business. I had some problems but still I can handle it. I also consider myself rich because my boyfriend loves me so much. There are a lot to be thankful even the breath that i am breathing or the computer that I am using.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative .. there is a song with those words. We CHOOSE to be happy.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Thank-you for your comments. Luck is inspiration + preparation + preparation, meeting opportunity.
@tiffanymarie (191)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I think what you wrote is beautiful. I hope you show/share your discussion with your family and wife. It is so nice to see a man express his true feelings of appreciation for his life, family, and Creator.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I try to tell my wife "I love you" at least seven times each day.
@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
When I posted this discussion one day ago, I never thought that it might be possible I would wake up this morning to find SEVEN PAGES of responses! WoW!
@geniusathish (11)
• India
24 Jan 07
RICHNESS IS RELATIVE.
many think they are rich ,but the richness is relative according to ideologies and attitude of each................
so there may be many more on thisearth who consider themselves more rich than you.
RIGHT?
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@danjenkins (646)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Theres an inexhaustible supply of these attitudes .. our attitude dictates our altitude.