Do u thnk that men should help women in the kITCHEN

Pakistan
January 23, 2007 5:59pm CST
Do u ppl agree that men should help the ladies in the kitchen ? Dun u thnk that the kitchen is to be worked out by ladies of the home?
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@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
I think everyone who lives in the house should help out in the kitchen, afterall the meals which are prepared are not "only" for the lady of the house. There is no reason men can't cook a meal or wash or dry dishes, or sweep the floor or do any of the other chores in the kitchen. If he lived on his own he'd have to do them, so why wouldn't he do it if he was living with a woman?
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Ok ok dear i shud thnk about doing it. Sieriously thanks 4 ur valuable discussion
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@amazehr (429)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
they should even the kids should learn how to help in the kitchen for them to know what to do when nobody is around and they need something some kid of an independency learning right
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Hmm. Ur point is completly relevant! I neva thought of that bf4 thanks 4 responding
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• United States
24 Jan 07
No, because men mess up everything.
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Ya i agree with u
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• United States
24 Jan 07
Of course they should. All people in the home should do some bit of work in the kitchen if they are able. You can even put the younger ones to work doing simple chores. I think it's only common courtesy to help out in the kitchen.
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Hmmm. Ur point is gud thanks 4 responding
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@Lecaro (1100)
• Romania
25 Jan 07
maybe in another age i would say that the kitchen is only for women... but now... i say yes i think they could do the cooking together! in my house... i don;t know to cook so much so my boyfriend is cooking because he likes it very much!
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
Thanks 4 ur response! What will u do after marrige? Dun u thnk that u should get married instead of having boy friends? Sory if i got personal dear it was just what i felt actualy i like marrige better than that stuff what do u say? I hope ur not offended! If yes then sory:) thanks 4 responding
@deeksh (77)
• India
29 Jan 07
ofcourse...why should'nt they?...if men take pleasure in eating nyc stuff..they should try and help in d kitchen as well...it won't hurt them much..nt dat dey shud juz b in d kitchen bt whhy nt help?..besides nowadayz mosta d galz r working juz lyk the men..so why not help them in kitchen..besides it helps you getting closer to ur partner as well
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• Pakistan
29 Jan 07
Thanks a lot for such a detailed response i agree with u dear!
@Bhutto (741)
• India
24 Jan 07
See friend if you think it is sin to help your mother ,sister or a wife in kitchen then you are mistaken.Do things assuming that you are helping some one to finish a job in time.in to days world one has to do these small things it will be a great help to each other.
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Hmm. Whn we talk about mutual help it is a gud option!
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• United States
25 Jan 07
Last night I did all the cooking and cleaning in the kitchen. We give and take.
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• United States
26 Jan 07
I'm not actually married, I was over at a friend's who happens to be a girl. When I was married, the kitchen was one of my domains.
• Pakistan
25 Jan 07
I am not married yet but as u are saying about give and take i think it is right
@aib536pk (124)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
i think one more point exists that mostly in the subcontinent which have male dominent societies majorly have this issue.not only the male are not willing to help the ladies in thier household works instead if the meal is not good they even abuse the wives or the cooking ladies and even sometimes matter raises to beating.total ignorance
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• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
Pinkcoolfire dun u thnk u are getng mad? Thats my discusion nt urs!
• Norway
30 Jan 07
I have already selected the best response! Had i not done that i had given it to u! U gave a good response! Thanks a lot
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@ashishsab (292)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Well if men can do it he should do it but on the same time it should not happen that wife is sleeping or watching TV and husband is doing complete household work. It should be helping both ways.
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Thats what i xactly say! There should b a balance
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@candygurl24 (1880)
• Canada
31 Jan 07
That is a really sexist comment that women should only be in the kitchen. We provide life on this earth and should be held in higher standards than that. I for one will not be the woman barefoot and pregnant in front of a stove!
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• Pakistan
31 Jan 07
Thanks 4 responding
• Pakistan
1 Feb 07
I totally agreè dear
• United States
27 Jan 07
If the woman is cooking, the guy can chop up stuff and better yet, they can wash the dishes!
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• Pakistan
27 Jan 07
The former one is right but i frankly object on the later one on my part anyways thanks 4 responding
• Pakistan
28 Jan 07
Hmm!
@kristia (138)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i agree that men should really help in the kitchen.. its one way of creating a closer a relationship with his girl or his family and it is also enjoyable.
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Okok dear thanks 4 ur valuable contribution
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• Philippines
8 Feb 07
of course, agreed! why won't? Couples are bind with equalities. it doesn't mean that wives are absolutely for the kitchen and husbands are for looking on what to cook to. Both must have the initiative of finding what is lacking. when wives does the earnings... so at time the wive came home should the husband prepares and vice-versa. If both are from a tiring work, it is the initiative and willingness by between whom should be the one prepare for.
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• Pakistan
8 Feb 07
Thanks 4 responding! I agree!
• Pakistan
22 Feb 07
I thnk then both should do that!
• India
2 Feb 07
all the member of the hosue should help in the kitchen my hubby is very helping and cuts vegetables,prepars tea and even helps cleaning the table.i wish all the husbands do that!!
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• Pakistan
2 Feb 07
thanks for responding i hope u have a nice hubby!:)
@072006 (1276)
• India
24 Jan 07
No Way!! I dont think that some kind of work is so much gender biased. even working out is not only men's job. So like same working in kitchen is not only women's job.I guess there should not be nay work, rather there is no work which is said to be done by man or woman specifically. If they are living together its natural thing to share a each others work!!
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Like always u posted a wonderful comment, i totally agree with u! Thanks 4 ur wonderful comments
• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Hmmm.
@bethmt (419)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I think men and women should both help out in the kitchen. I have two sons and taught them as soon as they were old enough how to help out with dinner and clean up after meals. Okay, they didn't catch on to the cleaning up part so well, but hopefully that'll improve. :) Not only do I think it's respectful for everyone in the household to help out with kitchen work (and all housework), I think it's also an important life-skill to teach boys domestic duties. I don't want my sons to be helpless as far as knowing how to cook and do housework when they're on their own,and I certainly don't want them being needy, and not to mention arrogant, by looking to a woman to take care of them.
• Pakistan
5 Feb 07
thanks for ur detailed response!
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• India
3 Feb 07
I agree that men should help women in the kitchen. Hey its harder taking care of a home than working in an office. Who said that kitchen is to be worked out by ladies? Foolishness. When a man and woman are husband and wife they should help each other in each other's work.
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• Pakistan
3 Feb 07
Thanks 4 responding
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@healer (1779)
• India
7 Feb 07
I think you are wrong in this point, men should also help women in the kitchen. Its not her home its everybodys so everybody should give their own ideas in all the works in the house. In that way the home will be build by heart
• Pakistan
8 Feb 07
Thanks 4 responding! I agree
• United States
23 Feb 07
I think that all should help with all housework. My marriage is a partnership, not a he does this and she does that and that is how it is. We share responsiblities, he helps me alot and I help him. Mind you sometime the way we help each other is by staying out of the way, lol, but we are in this together. I agree that women seem more prone to certain things as are men, but that does not mean that they can't learn to do the things they aren't so adapted to doing.
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• Pakistan
23 Feb 07
thanks for ur detailed response!!