So I'm talking to someone new

United States
January 23, 2007 8:54pm CST
I am talking to a new guy. he is really sweet and he nice and handsome, but I still have feelings for someone else. The thing is the guy that I still have feelings for doesn't want to be in a relationship with me, but he still likes me. I just can't help but feel a little guilty for talking to someone else whom I am actually interested in.But I have given the guy i still have feelings for months to be with me! Am I wrong for feeling this way?
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@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
It's actually good to know that you're talking to someone new and this someone seem to like you. If the guy that you like doesn't want to be committed into a relationship with you then he's not worth your feelings and you should let him go. You're such a beautiful woman and you deserve to love someone who loves you back.
• United States
26 Jan 07
aw thank you very much
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I am so glad that you are talking to someone new. I think that it is great that you are looking for more possibilities. You should not feel guilty about talking to this new guy. As you said yourself, the guy who you still have feelings for has actually told you that he isn't interested in a relationship. So there is nothing to feel guilty about. I think that you should do whatever you can to get over your feelings for this other guy and concentrate on the new friend that you are making. I know that it is hard, but it seems like it could be for the best. I wish you the best of luck! ^_^
• United States
26 Jan 07
aw thanx so much. I really appreciate the advice.
• United States
26 Jan 07
It all depends upon if you want a more stable and steady relationship. Either way don't feel guilty. This is why. If guy #1 is just leading you on and you DON"T want a serious relationship than there's no commitment thus no guilt. On the other hand if you DO want a serious relationship with guy #1, you've given him enough time and he isn't ready, then it's time to move on. Again, no guilt. I think it's time to give guy #2 more of your time. After all you have to make yourself happy first. ‹(°¿°)›
@cathiza27 (188)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Unless your not committed theres no wrong with what your doing, your just being nice and friendly.I just hope you find the real one for you tp be happy.
@SignMe (1031)
• India
26 Jan 07
Every body has feelings for something & many a thing. But what matters how you make it in practical. Just dont cheat your buddy. Make him clear what you want in him. Thats all :)