Is the guy cheating?
By milagre
@milagre (1272)
Portugal
January 24, 2007 3:03pm CST
This is the problem: the guy has messages to a phone number the girlfriend doesnt know, she just knows from the other side there's a woman's voice. Also, some messages just have a few minuts of gap, suggesting replys. Is this suspecious? how can she confront him with this, knowing he will be arguing and getting mad just about the question, being or not true? She doesnt have access to his mobile, just to his mobile bill (by a chance she saw it? what should she do to be sure?
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6 responses
@Reaperdelta24 (20)
• United States
25 Jan 07
This is a very touch subject with guys because if you accuse us of cheating and were not we get all pissed off and thats never good..... What i would try is get his mobil bill and see what numbers are calling him often that you dont know of and call that number and see who it is......it is snooping around but it worked for me and thats how i caught my gf cheating on me.
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@cajunmomma (624)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Well have you ever heard of women's intuition? We all have it, we just ignore it most of the time. If you have a gut feeling that he is doing something he isn't supposed to, then look into it more. Read his bill when you get a chance. If you see any numbers on his bill that you don't recognize and ones that only call whenever he isn't around you, then call them from a calling card or another number and see who it is. Tell them you are looking for so and so and ask who you are speaking to. Then if they say you have the wrong number, then say okay. You could even get a friend to call for you. That way, if you find out that is the chick he is messing with, then she won't know you called before. Good luck and follow your gut instinct.
@milagre (1272)
• Portugal
26 Jan 07
right now her intuition is low because she just thinking about what is going on, if everything is ok at home she just dont know what hell there's messages to a number she doesnt know and she know is a woman and also some have just few minutes gapings. At the moment she's just wondering and trying to find out for sure, so, she says she's going to wait for the next bill (this was the first bill). Thxs
@habichuelo (3100)
• United States
24 Jan 07
if i was her, i will act like i dont care anymore and,,be extremely vigilant but in a secret way,,if that continues then i brake up with him to see how fast he hook up with other girl,,,if he get a girlfriend too fast..then i know he was cheatting on me...
@Tweety2035 (662)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Honesty is the best policy.She should just ask him and get it over with.If he gets mad or is really defensive then she will have her answer right there.Guys don't get mad at question if they are innocent or if they are guilty.
@nw1911guy (1131)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I would say that unless she has the actual messages then she really doesn't have a leg to stand on, so to speak.
