Needing help with baby.

United States
October 7, 2006 4:16pm CST
I am about to loose my mind if I do not get at least 1 night of sleep, SOON! Teddy is 6.5 months old now and I have not had a decent nights sleep since I was about 7.5 months preggo! (between the heartburn, his constant moving/kicking in the ribs, and having to pee every 30-60 mins haha) He still sleeps like a newborn, seriously, up every 2 hours, almost like clockwork. He usually falls back to sleep pretty quickly, within 10-25 mins, but it takes me longer to fall back to sleep. Example, here is last night (this is how every night goes, he even wakes up around the same times!) Went to sleep 8:30 pm (I did not got to bed until around 9:30) Up 10:45 pm Back to sleep around 11:00 pm Up at 1:15 am Back to sleep around 1:25 am Up at 3:30 am Back to sleep at 4:00 am Up at 6:15 am Back to sleep around 6:30 am Up at 7:00 am, back to sleep within 5 minutes Up at 7:30 am for the day I did not get to go back to sleep after 6:15 am! He NEVER sleeps in past 7:30 am, EVER, even if he stays up late. Its like once there is light in the room, its time to get up. I am so sleep deprived I think I am loosing my mind, I do not know what to do to get him to sleep, please help me, PLEASE....
16 responses
• United States
19 Oct 06
Have you talked to your son's doctor about it? A lot of peditricians now have infant sleep specialists available in office to help with problems like this.
• United States
19 Oct 06
if you cant talk to your sons doc about it you can always ask a nurse. sometimes they are helpful
• United States
19 Oct 06
not yet, but I plan to. His 6 month check up was scheduled for Oct 4, but the day before the doctor's office called me and said the doctor was out and they had to reschedule. They did not have anything open until November 6th, so when we go in if he is still not sleeping well I do plan on asking.
• United States
19 Oct 06
have you tried using one of te sassy brand solid feeders and giving him cereal when he wakes up at night?
• United States
19 Oct 06
i had my son on solids when he was 3 months old. Just a pinch in his milk to start out .. then i started giving him more by spoon. that was when he started to sleep through the night. i would recemend the cereal.
• United States
8 Oct 06
Are you nursing him, or giving him bottles at night? If you're nursing, consider bringing him into your bed with you, even if it's just for a few weeks so you can get some rest. Once you get used to it (a day or two), you will be able to pull him over to latch him on and then drift off back to sleep while he nurses. It's also possible that he wakes up and is unable to settle himself back to sleep when he's all alone, and that having you right next to him will help him stay asleep longer. Another side benefit is that your sleep cycles will coordinate with each other, so you'll hit a light sleep state when he does, so if he wakes and awakens you, it won't be as bad because you're coming out of light sleep, not deep sleep. If cosleeping (which is perfectly safe if reasonable precautions are taken - http://www.naturalfamilyonline.com/5-ap/312-co-sleeping-safety.htm), you could drop the side of his crib and push it right up next to your bed to give you easier/quicker access without having to actually get up. Even if you're bottle-feeding, you could have all the supplies right there on your nightstand, feed him with everyone still in bed, and then go back to sleep right away. It'll buy you several minutes on either end of a feed. It's all about survival, mama! (And the good news is that,if you're in the northern hemisphere at least, the hours of darkness will get longer and longer! I used to have a baby who, I guess, thought his job was to wake up the roosters! But he was a spring baby, so daylight kept coming earlier and earlier.)
• United States
18 Oct 06
We have been co-sleeping since he was approx 2 weeks old. A few people suggested I try giving him some proteiin at dinner and/or before bed. I have been trying this for about a week now and it seems to be helping. When he goes down he is out for 4-5 hours the first time, then its back to every 2 hours. But at least I can get about 4 hours in solid before he wakes for the first time.
• United States
18 Oct 06
One reason I put him in his own bed was because whenever he would wake a little, he would be like, "Oh, there's mom-I want her boob." or he could smell me and want me. So it's better if he isn't that close to me now.
• United States
19 Oct 06
Wow I feel for you my daughter was the same way just about a month ago and I thought I was seriously going to die. I had some women pray for me at a Bible study I go to. What I did was feed her dinner earlier at 5pm then I gave her a bath 7pm after that I give her a bottle and read to her. By 8pm I put her in bed and her sleeping habits improved alot. She wakes up only twice through the night. Then at 7 or 7:30am she gets up. I wish my 9 month old daughter was sleeping through the night but this is alot better than it was before. I hope I could be of some help. God Bless
• United States
19 Oct 06
That is so awesome! I didn't want to ask either but I didn't know what else to do and I seriously didn't think I was going to make it. Pray changes everything im so thankful for that. Im praying for you too. God Bless
• United States
19 Oct 06
thank you for your post, maybe I will ask our church group to pray for us. I have thought about it before, and prayed about it on my own, but I kinda thought it was selfish to ask others to pray for us, so I will ask this Sunday during Sunday School prayer requests.
• United States
18 Oct 06
Co-Sleep! Its the happiest solution for everyone!
• United States
18 Oct 06
Co-sleeping can also hinder sleep if you need lots of room or are afraid you will roll over the baby and suffocate it. I co-slept with my first and I got better sleep when he slept in his own bed.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
28 Oct 06
I always gave mine a few bits oe food and a bath right before bed. Sometimes it helped. Also try to keep him awake for several hours before you decide to go to bed, maybe he will sleep better then.
• United States
19 Oct 06
i would feed him some cereal cuz it sounds like he is not getting full enough off the milk. they love to eat cereal if you add a little bit of baby food to it .. start off with pears. After that he should sleep longer as he is fuller. just try to make sure he is reaalllyyy full. and sometimes it is ok to let him cry. babies need to cry! it strengthens their vocal cords. And he is knowing that you come to his rescue every time he crys, so if you dont show up one time he will get the point. babies will take advnatage of you so you have to set some rules. my son did that but when i knew he had eaten enough and had a change and drink he had no reason to cry. so i would let him cry it out. at 6 months he is just fine. check with your doctors first to make sure he is not sick or in pain with something. once all is ruled out then just let him cry it out. by 1 week you will be sleeping again. good luck. if you have more questions you can email me here. bye
@skittlez353 (1402)
• United States
9 Oct 06
That`s very normal. I was the same way with my daughter. My daughter is almost two years old and she still wakes up in the middle of the night. It`s nothing you can get used to I know, but it will get easier. Do you have anyone to help you at night?
@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
8 Oct 06
seems to a serious problem, please consult some one who can really help
• Hyderabad, India
18 Oct 06
Sleep! Its the happiest solution for everyone!
• India
18 Oct 06
i can't understood what you reqally want to say.
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
19 Oct 06
Welcome to the joys of motherhood. When my son was 3 months old he kept me up ALL night every night for 3 weeks. Nothing I could do would help him settle down and sleep. He didn't have a temp or any physical problem I could see. I'd stay up with him all night and then work all day. Finally, in desperation, I took him to the doctor. I was on the verge of total exhaustion, and I also had a 3-year-old to care for. The doctor discovered that my son was having the first of many, many ear infections. There was no outward sign, and the doctor told me there was no way I could have known.
@Thara26 (399)
• United States
19 Oct 06
i went through this with my son. hes 2 and sometimes he still wakes up during the night. maybe he needs to eat a lil more before he goes to sleep. try giving him a little bit of rice cereal or whatever you feed him about 20 minutes before he goes to sleep, then give him his bottle. does he nap during the day? maybe if he naps more then once he needs 1 less nap or even a shorter nap.
• United States
27 Oct 06
I got my daughter to sleep all night last night. This is what I did and it worked at least for 1 night. Bottle at 6:30 bath with Johnson's bedtime wash at 7:45 and into her warm jammies after some lotion and a soft massage another bottle with cereal at almost 9. I also swaddled her in her blanket. Once she fell asleep in my arms I put her in her crib with her wounds sounds bear. I feel for you, I couldn't imagine going that long with waking up every 2 hrs.
@bblessed (1822)
• United States
8 Oct 06
Dont feel alone I have been through it 6 times! The older they get the more they will sleep. Sometimes they just need alittle more to eat and that will help them rest better! Good luck and your not the only one with dark circles under your eyes :)
@xbrendax (2662)
• United States
8 Oct 06
New mothers have been known to have nervious break downs because of lack of sleep, so I would recomend you find someone, (a sister, mother, aunt) etc. who can take Teddy for a night or at least several hours so you can get a few hours of much needed sleep! You MUST get your sleep girl! Even one full night of sleep will make a world of difference to you and you'd be better able to handle the other things! My sister went through this with her new baby and finally, (to save my sister), me, my mom, and my other sister took turns keeping Danny (the baby) off and on, giving my sister the sleep she needed and in no time, she was back to her old (normal) self again! Please see if someone can do that for you, because without proper sleep, you won't be of much good to you or your baby! Good Luck!!!