what does u see when selecting your spouse

i mostly try to see her behaviour, character and the family of whichtype

Honesty, I picked my wife because of that characteristics she has. Without it any relationships will not last longer. Even a good lover could lie. A pretty face cannot portray the exact person has inside. When everything fails, honesty is your last option even in the face of break up, you can deal it well with honesty.

honesty and kindness and a sense of humor. there has to be some sort of chemistry.