My mother loves me so much, she's killing me.

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Okay here's the story. I am now in college and I feel that my mother is treating me like I'm in grade school. My classes starts at 4:30PM, 6:00PM or 7:30PM so practically the whole morning I am at home surfing the net, watching tv, or doing my homework. Every lunch she will call me to ask me if I have eaten my lunch. She does this everyday. I know she cares for me but I am grown up basically I know when to eat. Not only she calls to ask whether I had my lunch but she will asks more like what I am doing, is there someone looking for her. Again she does this everyday. I am not sure if she's bored at work but everyday she'll call 2 to 3 times a day just to ask what I am doing. Not only on this call thing, whenever I am going somewhere she needs to know where I am going, when I'll be back, why I am going there, who is with me. She's like a reporter. One more, she gets mad if she sees me still awake at 11:00. She said I'll get sick because I sleep late. But she doesn't understand that everyday I wake up at 9 or 10 in the morning so it's like 10 to 11 hours of sleep for me. And at my age it's a complete sleep. There's this one thing that our whole class was nvited to a party. Some of my classmates went there, some doesn't feel like going. But I have a different story, I didn't come because my mother won't let me go. I missed several out-of-town seminars, still because my mother won't let me. Believe me, there's a lot more going around between me and my mom. I love my mother but her care is killing me. For parents out there how can I tell my mother that she's over reacting without hurting her? For children like me, what shall I do?