love
By abstyle
@abstyle (1)
India
17 responses
@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
9 Oct 06
“The experience of love is the same, what changes are our preferences.”
can start off by telling you what I think the difference between lust and love is. Lust is a temporary emotion; you might feel lustful towards someone before you even talk to them, based only on their physical appearance. You might find that as soon as you get to know them for their personality, you are no longer interested in them. Lust is also not enough to sustain a long-lasting relationship.
There is also the type of love where you care about someone as you would a close friend or family member, but there is not a physical/emotional chemistry. This can happen after you've had a relationship with someone and the magic starts to die, or it could be a good friend who feels romantically towards you, but whose feelings you can't return.
The best circumstance for a romantic relationship is when you feel both romantic love and companionship for someone. You should feel strongly enough about them to miss them when they aren't there but respect them enough to let them pursue their own goals and interests. You should care about their well-being and want the best for them, even if it means you may have to sacrifice some of your time with them. You should be able to get angry at them or be disappointed with them without it changing how you feel about them.
Also, I think that when you are truly in love with someone, you need to be interested in them both physically and mentally. It is not enough, for example, to love someone because he or she is "nice." There are a lot of nice people in the world, so it should be more than that. They need to posess many different qualities that you enjoy and admire.
@harkirat20 (105)
• India
9 Oct 06
excellent comment i must say....nice to know,that people like u,who i am sure has fallen in love as in love,also are very observant and intelegent enf to relize it...lol...great man,
@harkirat20 (105)
• India
9 Oct 06
YEAH TURE...i guess this lady has just fallen in blissful love..lol....enjoy lady.....
@sheenae7777 (29)
• United States
9 Oct 06
"LOVE" I've had, it is now gone and not sure if I want it again...lol