toddler dilema
By Kaldonya
@Kaldonya (277)
United States
January 26, 2007 12:37pm CST
My 2yr old daughter is now in a toddler bed (which she doesn't like to stay in - but that's another post). Just today, she figured out how to take off those safety door knob covers. We had one on the inside of her bedroom door so that she couldn't get out and wander around (at night), fall down the steps, climb into her brother's crib and wake him (or whatever) and basically keep her safe. Now that she knows how to get them off, what should I do? I can't buy a gate for her door, because she is like a little monkey and can climb those with no problem. I don't know how else to keep her in there. Do you think buying one of those hook locks to put on the outside of her door and locking her in her bedroom during naps and nighttime is wrong?
I'm looking for some suggestions. Thanks.
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@deberooney (418)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Duct tape? Just kidding! My son was a climber and we let him sleep in his toddler bed with an extra mattress on the floor. That way he could go in or on the floor...Would it be possible to use 2 gates?
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@Kaldonya (277)
• United States
6 Feb 07
That's an idea about two gates, one of top of another...hmm... I ended up making a nice comfy bed out of really soft blankets on the floor so she has a choice of where to sleep if she doesn't want to sleep in her bed. For now, we glued the door knob covers on the door.
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@simplysue (631)
• United States
26 Feb 07
We tried that with our lil one and he climbed both gates like a ladder!
@AskAlly (3625)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
I had 5 boys and I'm afraid I used the hook locks. They were worse or better than Houdini himself.
I don't know what people are going to say. I think back now and maybe it was not the safest choice had we ever had a fire.
I'm not up on any of the new gadgets so this discussion is up to you new moms.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Well, I am not sure that it will be a good idea to lock her in the bedroom. What if she needs to go to the bathroom or something like that? I think you should explain to her that she should not do that and she must leave those door knob covers on, and she might get hurt if she doesn't. Maybe she'll understand and reason with you.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
26 Jan 07
i don't think that it is wrong, but i think it is dangrous. my lil girl is the same way. she knows how to get into everything child proof. go to toys r us or whatever store in your area that sales children safety things and see what they have. my little one won't leave the room becuase she is scared of everything. I think she sees spirits but like you that is another post.
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@lifeiseasy (2292)
• United States
6 Feb 07
You could try putting vaseline or baby oil on the door knobs I have also heard of placing a sock on the knobs ,but I have a feeling she could figure the sock out in a heart beat if she has figued out the safty door knob covers ... the vaseline or baby oil won't harm the knob, nor harmful to her either ..good luck ... :)
@simplysue (631)
• United States
26 Feb 07
I like this idea! This isn't my question but I'm going to try this for my lil man and see if it works. :)
@simplysue (631)
• United States
26 Feb 07
Maybe a lock on the door isn't the safest thing in case of fire however not having a lock on the door or some means of keeping her inside is dangerous every second that you are sleeping. It's a rock and a hard place situation. As for being able to reason with a 2 year old.....maybe other people's children understood the voice of reason at 2 years old, I'm sad to say that mine didn't. We also have to shut our child in his room at night to keep him safe. Make sure to place the hook in the same area as the handle so you will be able to find it by feel as easily as you would the doorknob. When you stop and think about it, she has been locked in her room, unable to get out by herself up until the time that she figured out the childsafe knob. You would still have to assist her to get her out of the room.
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