Are Youn Open Minded Enough?

@tarachand (3895)
India
January 28, 2007 1:23am CST
To allow your children to seek their own faith, their own truths, even if it goes against yours?
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@Thomas73 (1467)
• Switzerland
28 Jan 07
I let my kids do whatever they wanted with their religion and I am quite happy that they saw the light. My mother-in-law registered them with the local church, and they attended mass regularly... because they had to! I never discussed it much with them, but they quickly realised what kind of fairytales religion was and that it was completely cut-off from the realities of life. Basically, they were ever so glad to leave the Church!
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
28 Jan 07
I am a Christian and all Christians believe that they should let their very young ones attend church and Sunday school, so that they have chances to know God and the Gospel. However, they are left to choose their belief on their own when they are old enough to attend high school. The teaching from our senior generations is that we should not force our children to believe in our religion, for God wishes all of us to choose our faith on our free will.
• Canada
28 Jan 07
Of course. I want my children to be able to think for themselves. Even if I don't necessarily agree with the decisions they arrive yet, I'm not one to force beliefs and opinions on anyone. For one thing, I'm not even perfectly confidant on my own beliefs. If only...
@tarachand (3895)
• India
28 Jan 07
....you were saying?.... Thanks fro your response!
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• United States
28 Jan 07
I don't want my children to just believe anything that comes along. I want them to think for themselves, so of course I'm going to allow them to search for what they believe is right. I'm not going to force beliefs on my children like so many parents do. I don't think it's right. They have the right to believe what they want to.
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@minerc (1373)
• United States
28 Jan 07
Yes, I think it is the parents job to guide their children with the religious beliefs, once they have reached an age where they are asking questions, and seeking out the information thru you as a parent or books,or the preacher. I think then it is up to them and whatever decission they make is going to be ok with me.
@tarachand (3895)
• India
28 Jan 07
Thanks for your response!
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• Netherlands
28 Jan 07
It's good that you let your children choose,i never had that change. My parents where cathilic,and they pushed me to be catholic to,i never had a choice. Everyday to church,praying when you wake up and go to bed,praing before and after a meal,praying when the scool starts end ending. I felt realy pushed to be a catholic.so with my own children i will never do this kind of things. not that i hated it,but being pushed is not right.
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@honeyangel (1991)
28 Jan 07
im teaching my kid to think for them selfs.i never got them christend or anything like that.when they grow up and want find their own faith ill stand by them.im not a religes person
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
6 Feb 07
we do need to prevent cults from getting their evil in their minds though
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
6 Feb 07
God calls us all to develop our own belief. It is imperative that we allow all others the freedom to develop their belief.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
28 Jan 07
Of course! I naturally share my beliefs with my children and always have and I give them the opportunity to join in with certain rituals like for example at Samhain...and they have participated for a few yrs now but I also teach them about other religions and make sure they knwo that whatever path they choose IF ANY is fine with me so long as they are happy with their choice and they remain kindhearted openminded ppl.....I think forcing religion on your kids is a mistake and denying them the information (CORRECT info) on various religions is an even bigger mistake IMO....
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
28 Jan 07
I would like to think that I am. I know i was raised one religion but I now follow another. I would be more then willing to help her figure things out, find which belief system is right for her. I couldn't force her to be what I am, that is not faith, that is tyranny and it doesn't work out. It just makes everyone miserable.
@cyntrow (8523)
• United States
28 Jan 07
Absolutely. Unless it is a cultist situation where I feel my child will be in danger, the choice is their own. A person has to follow his/her own path. What ever spirituality calls them is the one they should follow. Even if the choice is no religion at all.
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• Canada
28 Jan 07
Absolutely. In fact, that is what I am doing presently. I have three kids, ages 14, 11 and 8. My brother, an aunt and I are the only pagans in the family. The rest are all Roman Catholic or some denomination of Christian. My kids attend church with both their grandmother on my side (Catholic) and their grandfather on my husband's side (Anglican). They also help me to celebrate days like the Winter Solstice and Beltane. They have a right to choose for themselves what they believe and I refuse to force them to choose a religion. If they choose to be agnostic, so be it!
@mobyfriend (1017)
• Netherlands
8 Feb 07
Absolutely. Even if you share your faith with your kids there is no guarantee that they want to share it with you as well. And frankly you cannot impose your faith on your children if your are still seeking for answers yourself.
@naiina (135)
• China
28 Jan 07
yes but i'll try my best to stop thinking about anything which is against islam but if they woun't i 'll leave them n would never met them agin in my life but when a person enters in islam he never widraw it...
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@vivekwig (47)
• India
28 Jan 07
yes, i am
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I am very open minded and whatever my kids choose to do with their lives, I will be very supportive for them. Because it is their lives and they have to do whatever they want with it.