Do you agree in Polygamy or Polyandry ???

Indonesia
January 28, 2007 7:57pm CST
No matter what your religion is, are you agree a family with more than one husband or wife ?? It said it's ok if you can be fair to your husbands or wives. And it's better to do that than to cheats. Do you agree with that ? Please give the reason !
2 responses
• Australia
2 Feb 07
No I dont agree with cheatings, polygamy or polyandry(um what is the meaning of this one?) anyways the reason is for me every person should stay faithful to the their significant others. you take the vows when you get married and you should always honour that vows. By having more than one husband or wives that is a betrayal of those vows. A person cannot love two wives at the same time with equal amount of love so therefore there will be jealousy, hurt and many other problems. In one marriage with one couple, there are already so many problems that you need to solve together and can only be solved if the marriage stay strong, imagine what would happen if there are two wives with one husband or the other way around. The problem raised would be multiplied.
• Indonesia
6 Feb 07
Polyandry is a wife with more than 1 husband But if the love they share is fair, why should be jealousy? I guess with monogamy, people already have so much problem, i can't imagine the problem will occur with more than 1 husband/wife
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I think that as long as everyone in the relationship is okay with it and agrees with it, there's no problem. Humans aren't naturally monogamous, and there can't ever be anything wrong with more love in the world. I've known people in poly relationships and they're happy and in love and well adjusted. So as long as everyone involved is invested in making it work, just like any other relationship, it works.
• Indonesia
6 Feb 07
Humans aren't naturally monogamous? Do you mean a married couple always cheat or love another beside his/her couple? May be love is the answer as long as it's distributed fairly
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
6 Feb 07
humans are not naturally monogamous, no, as well as they're not naturally polygamous...anyway who knows that for sure? nobody that we know lived in the Prehistory to check. Anyway what matters is that certain cultures allow it as something normal, so i think it should be respected, as well as our monogamous customs must be respected by them as well.