do money change people?
By adidas7878
@adidas7878 (1891)
United States
January 28, 2007 8:37pm CST
i was at a resturant today eating lunch, and than i seem a couple walk in with a baby, and they sit down next to me, the server came up and settle them down, and the lady give the server 3 dollars as tip, and for the rest the time i was there, i swear to god that server go to that couple every 5 minutes or so asking if they want anything or if he could do something. personaly i think the server got change by the tips ahead of the time, i know he got other table to serve, he probaly been there now and than, he had put himself as slave to the money, maybe i am wrong about this, but the money or tips change him to serve them more, what do you think? do money change people or how they act for the time being?
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33 responses
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
9 Feb 07
yeah ,few hundred years back who ever though money could change people that much
@Fareast187 (104)
• Malaysia
1 Feb 07
of course money can change people,without the money people cant alive...
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
1 Feb 07
that is only partly true, look at all the people came before us, they dont have money and they live together just fine, it is when they start discovered and start using it and make it a big deal, other wise people used live without money
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
it can change SOME people, but cant change everything. nor everyone
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
29 Jan 07
We give the tip for the service, so the server (if he is honest) thought that he had to work for it. And he did it well.
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
29 Jan 07
that is my point, how could anyone tip someone before hand, that is like playing favor with other coustmer that is in the resturant, and make himself look like a slave
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
29 Jan 07
that is my point, how could anyone tip someone before hand, that is like playing favor with other coustmer that is in the resturant, and make himself look like a slave over a few dollars. i tip my waitress after we done eating and i left her 3 dollars too. too much attention could be bad too. people need their space when they go out to eat.
@weee_ann (1453)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Like media, internet and just other kind of behavior that your friend has can really influence a person. Money is a very huge influence to people. It just changes everything. Everything. But like everybody said, Money can buy anything but can't buy everything.
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@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Right you are about money can buy anything but not everything. Also that money really changes people some how, the greed factor in us human help people to change if they have lots of money. greetings. : )
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
29 Jan 07
i suppose that is true, but still why would anyone want to play favor with people who has a little extar money, i mean come on they wouldnt let it if someone else do that to them.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
30 Jan 07
to adidas:
it's usually like that. people's simple way of practicing injustice. it's not a huge act of injustice but in a way, it really is.
to weee-an:
you are right, money is a great influence to many. my friends who married rich men changed a lot. it's as if i can no longer reach their status in life. but it's okey. as we said, it's reality. so, i should deal with it.
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@sweetlady10 (3611)
• United States
29 Jan 07
You are right, money change people. For a server serving is their job, they pay attention to a customer more or less according to their tip. But what you will say about your friends or relatives, they just change according to your good or bad situation(financial situation).
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@coffeechat (1961)
• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
You are right.
Shall I put it another way? Lack of money changes everything. Have you noticed how friends and relatives distance themselves or go closer depending on how financially healthy you are?
Is it because of them or who we are being?
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
you cant win neither way, too much money will change your whole life, you dont know who is real or who is in for the money, not enough money it would change your life too, people dont want to be anywhere near someone without much money. this is come to point where it make me sicken
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
29 Jan 07
well than what happend if your friend show up at the job and he only tip you a dollar would they get the same serivce or less, or what would happend than you know? he not going to igron his family and friends right, i hope not
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
show thanks is alirght, but over do it is not. there is a limit, people choose not to follow it.
@lpetges (3036)
• United States
30 Jan 07
well, i don't think its right that the server did this. i've waitressed before, and i didn't do that. i just did my job, and was thankful for any tip i got. i guess i'm not a good butt kisser. anytime a tip is involved you just have to be thankful to have gotton one. i know alot of people that don't even tip. they feel the restaurant should pay their employees for their job that they do. So other people's money doesn't change me.
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
well that is good, myself is a delivery driver, i am happy if someone tips me, i get a little upset if they dont, just because gas price is so expensive these day, i dont want people go broke tipping me, i am happy with just a dollars or two. but that is the first time i seem that happend so that is why it kinda sicken me alittle
@coffeechat (1961)
• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
Money changes everything.
Have you heard the Cyndi Lauper song? Here are the full lyrics.
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/c/cyndi+lauper/money+changes+everything_20035163.html
My partner tends to slip a bill or two to the doorman at a nightclub, to the Maitre'D at an expensive restaurant and it almost always gets us excellent service. This works particularly well when we visit the USA.
It works very well in the developing countries such as India, Nigeria, Ghana, Indonesia, Brazil etc.
What works best for us, is not just the tip - it is the genuine interest my partner has in good interaction with the staff. He usually has something pleasant to say to the waiter that brings a smile. He does that unfailingly regardless of which country we are in - and we have always enjoyed excellent service.
Cheers!
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
first time i read the song i dont think i ever heard of it. all those things i understand, but what i dont get is lowering yourself to the lowest point, to almost being a slave is different story. agree?
@lancomegirl (257)
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30 Jan 07
money is not everything for me.. but of course money can change to somebody..they can afford to buy things that other people cant.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
true, money can be good and can be evil is all depend who has it, and give to who. money is not everything to me, it cant buy what i want in life, it can help that is all.
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Yes!Absolutely Money change people.Especially when it terms the way how you give effort to your work and to people who give you that kind of tips.Lol!
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
yes it true, but also sad, how they act when they get tips ahead of time.
@dbeast (1495)
• India
30 Jan 07
who says money cannot buy happiness?in todays world where everything is influenced by money it is even possible to pay off the most innocent guy and get your work done.people need money in order to survive.gone are the days where the fittest will survive.it is the richest who will survive nowadays and the poor get crushed by them.it makes people literally heratless.there will be only a small percent who will totally be unfazed by money.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
but money cant change everyone as money cant buy everything, it can buy something.
@patabu74 (167)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I believe that money does change people. I dont even live by people who are even that wealthy but the ones who are the higher class level so called around where i live act really stuck up and stingy. I think it changes you for the time being but if you get used to hanging around with people that arent as wealthy then you then you can change but until you do that then you will act different in most cases. Othe cases their are people that dont take thier money for granted and a thankful for what they are given and thas a whole different story.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
true, very true, i have seem many people like around here, they think they are better than you because their parents have alot of money. what i got is what i get. i am happy with it, i dont go overboard, unless they are my friend than it is a little different story.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
yea that is first for me too. maybe it is more than 3 dollar maybe it is 7 who knows, but lower yourself to get better time is not same as better serivce
@jossml (464)
• Puerto Rico
30 Jan 07
Yes, money change people, its true that people serve better when you give a tip first, because they are thinking that if they serve you better they will get more money. But not all people are the same and depending on the quantities of money. That is the reason we are here at myLot, money change people.
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
yea that is true, but than again that is not why i am here on mylot, god how often you get to meet the whole world under your finger tips, everyone is intersting. if i have a million bucks i would buy everyone dinner here on mylot but i dont. i dont view money the most important.
@p3halliwel2005 (3156)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
As I know money is very important to some people especially if they are poor, have a family to feed, have a debt to pay, have to pay for someones need like a sick relative or school..Money is not important to the rich but they are to the middle class and the poor..Maybe this server was expecting he will be given more by this patrons or he was serving them out of generosity for the way they gave him a tip.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
maybe, but he lower himself too much , as almost his a slave, if fine that he give the good service, but too much attention is bad too. i wouldnt want someone come to me to ask if i want something or not every 5 minutes, you need to know when, and you got to give people space too. am i right?
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
that is good one, but without god there is no man, whichout there is no money, there is no money, everyone will be mad too. you cant win neither way.
@Ragavendran (188)
• India
30 Jan 07
Money does have an effect on people on their behaviour and their thinking.Some people are so desperate for money that they would go any lengths to earn it.People also pay more respect to the people who pay them more and are more rich.They treat such people very well.Even if he is not a slave to money,he prefers to get more money.So he acts accordingly.This is the general behaviour.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
30 Jan 07
that is the kind of behavior that sicken me because, the lower themselve to people who is rich, the lost their dignity, just because they alreday gotten paid, doesn't matter if other people going to or not at the end, they go for the whole who paid first.
@myroyalelot (27)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
usually money change do change a lot. one, it change peoples physical grooming. two, it change his or her perspective in life. it would even change the people around. moneyed people usually go with those people who wants to earn more, e.g. businessmen, entreprenuers. in the situation that you mentioned, it might be that the server is into a situation that most people would respond the way he did. there are very few people who could and would stay very close to what and who they were before they got those extra money. and i like them. money should not be our master. instead money should be our servant.
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