Women...Women... Hard to understand.......

India
January 28, 2007 10:21pm CST
I know many people find it wiered. It is not in offense of anyone. Its all my own experience. It is so hard to understand women..... If you praise them, they think you are lying. If you don't, they think you don't love them. If you kiss them, they think you are not gentleman, If you don't, they think you are not man. If they speak, they want you to listen. If you speak, they think you are arguing. Its hard to live with them but much harder to live without them....... what do you all say ???? (Even women are invited to share their thoughts )
9 responses
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
no, it is not weired.. its a normal situation. women also difficult to understand man. u have to learn from your experiences. try to understand y women cant accept it.mybe they dont like the way u treat them....only u can decide
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• India
29 Jan 07
Good suggestion! Thank you !
• Malaysia
15 Feb 07
you are welcome.. this is friendship means.. to get a better advice, u should refer to a better experience people... actually, women have a sensitive feeling. u should control and treat her carefully.. anyway, good luck!
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Well yeah its true that we are difficult at times but somehow you guys should be more sensitive to us...like what they say men are from mars and women are from venus?so what do u expect ?we are both aliens living in earth. But come to think of it wouldn't it be boring also if we just agree to almost everything that a guys want?The world would be so dull if women don't exist at all.
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• India
31 Jan 07
That's very true!! Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. If we agree upon almost everything, I really don't think we gona enjoy the life. So, its alwasy better to have difference of opinions but understanding is also requires to be there at the same time.
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Well I agree, women sometimes are difficult to understand and as well as man too.It is depends in their mood and their attitude, and how to deal with them.The main thing to focus on is how you behave and act in a relationship.Man must know what his women's like in general, what she is like when she's around him and most importantly, how she sees him.A man must know it so he can know how to react in certain situations, what to expect from his partner and how to make his relationship last in a peace and pleasant way.
• India
31 Jan 07
These are indeed good suggestions. But I am just wondering only if only man has to do all these stuffs of women also do something ??????????????
• India
30 Jan 07
Hi, it is not difficult to understand women... it is impossible to understand women.... i agree with you... you can not win when you are arguing with women.... she has that power that she can fix anyone at any point of time... she will argue or present herself in such a way that you will not able ot say a single word against her.... so i suggest you as a girl, dont argue with us......... LOLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
• India
31 Jan 07
OOHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!! Being a girl, you have accepted lot of things here. This is good because I don't see girls accepting their own "sily" things..... LOL.....
@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I love your topic and I do agree with you sometimes I myself don't understand my attitude. But when I get married and my husband which is was been so understanding with me for 12 years made me speacial and secure that's why I changed to a better woman that I can be and that started it all. Barely now I heard my husband complaining about me because he made me secure and believe in myself and my ability I think that help a lot with my emotional development. Welcome to myLot and happy posting.
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• India
29 Jan 07
Hey, first of all thank you for your nice welcome ! You are the first person in myLot I got welcom from. I have replied to almost about 50 discussions now. But anyways thank you very much. Yes, I think, I need to congratulate your husband for his patience. What I believe is, always talk special about your partner in front of every one. Nothing is required to have her in ur hold. (Here hold doesnt mean to have possession, I hope you understand me.)
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Some and mostly of woman. They want to be in the center all the time. Need much,more and satisfaction of guys attentions. Some woman acting that way because they are insecure and no trust. This kind of behavior can't work out the relationship unless the guy is very patient, understanding and inlove.:)happy posting.
@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Hahaha.. Hey we think the same way towards men too. Well, women think you really are lying – that if she can’t see you seriously. I myself don’t just accept praise when I know the guy is just telling me appreciation just for the sake of doing it. There really men telling men praises they don’t mean. Well, for those women who know their guy mean what they say and still don’t believe them, it’s overacting.
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
16 Feb 07
well i agree to an extent ... but even then i would say it takes a little more than what we think its easy for us males to get away with anything that we do as compared to females in general circumstances ... it does sometimes create confusion for me i strongly believe that if there is someone who can take responsibility and SHOULD take responsibility of saving a relationship its men, only then women will actively participate, women are more sensitive to lot of things that men arent to... similarly men are sensitive to certain things that women are aware of but still because we men have made them insensitive they tend to respond in a similar way i am sure any women if treated respectfully and loved regardlessly she would reciprocate the same feelings towards .... thanks for posting such a wonderful topic sid
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
2 Oct 07
Well bro, if you are still around take a look at my gender double standards thread. It has all this on it. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1276296.aspx Even with my experience and the experience of close male friends, male family members, online groups, readings, posts, insights, I've learned a lot about women but they are still hard to understand completely. Underlying and some esoteric stuff, I do have good insight on, hence my now cautious attitude in relationships and dating. Some women yes, they are angels and quite nice, but I've been through my fill of pretenders and I know plenty of other people who feel the same.