Is love still burning between the two of you?

mix it up, shake it up. you cant get into a routine, because then the relationship because boring and gets old. surprise her with flowers at work, or call her when shes working and leave a message where you say i love you. you need to realize certain things, you know like quirks about the person your with. what she likes, what she doesnt like, all those types of things. but all im gonna say is mix it up, shake it up. if you want things to keep growing and going, then surprise her. do something for her that shows her that you really care about her, and about the relationship that you are in.

We've been together 15 years--married for 12. It's had it's ups and downs, but mostly things have been good. We attribute our loving relationship to mutual respect, honesty, communication and a good sense of humor.

With us we live apart so the things couples do which are normal to most people are exciting to us so at the moment we dont need to keep things growing and its working great which is quite scary in a way how much I am getting into this relationship (my first and only) I have had such a good last few weeks including seeing her, that if it continues at this rate by the end of the year I will have married the girl I stay with for life, I will be a millionaire doing a job I love and I will be set for life.... thing is I could be happy with 1/1000 of that progress.