Use your brain for loving someone.

love - how can this possible that brain is involve to love someone.
@samraf (725)
India
February 1, 2007 6:16am CST
Do you really think that person should or could use his brain before loving anyone? is it like you can say i have start loving her after thinking all the aspects, her money, her age, her beauty, etc etc ... Is that possible? or love just happen without these barriers?
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16 responses
• India
2 Feb 07
well , these all cases regards to the person's personality , some people see these things and some are bound to the attractiveness of the girl she is looking like .. other then that ... a person should see a back ground of the girl , that wat she was ... these things are really considered ... beauty is not everything ..a person or a girl should have good education and a good family , so i think its the game of BRAIN use your brain when u make love , not to use your heart :P otherwise it will expire soon ;) try to use heart as less as you can :D
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@samraf (725)
• India
2 Feb 07
well i pretty admire your thoughts on this topic :P
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@krishkorp (427)
• India
6 Feb 07
Brain does come into picture even before he/she is known to u.Because that is when u decide as to stay with the person or not.From there on the heart takes its course .And u may end in love or not depending on u people.
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@samraf (725)
• India
8 Feb 07
do you really wana say that it is the major part in loving some one?
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• India
6 Feb 07
no i dont think that that person should use his brain before loving anyone. because there is no place of brain . love is heart feeling . love just happen without these barriers like money, her age, her beauty, etc.
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@samraf (725)
• India
6 Feb 07
well you got 100 out of 100. that the correct love defination i guess
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@k3tk3t (3128)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
well i used my brain and my heat but my heart is more stronger than my brain..
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@samraf (725)
• India
3 Feb 07
how can you say that ? can you explain ?
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@opinder (420)
• India
6 Feb 07
well....i feel there is some amount of brain involved when we get into a relationship. love, as such, does not involve brains. you love someone for no specific reason....but you are into a relationship due to various reasons.
@samraf (725)
• India
8 Feb 07
hey nice one you are rated :)
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@Phemzy (97)
• Nigeria
1 Feb 07
To love someone, it happens when you don't have a single thought about what you are going true, you just notice that you love he/she without any reason. Though there are reasons why you love him/her but if you are to be saying the reasons, you will realize that they are uncountable (i.e. you can know them all). If you truely love, it will allows you to forgive him/her whenever there is a quarrel between both of you, you can subscribe in this website for more information about your love to some one http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Many peoples now are using their brain in loving somebody. They always planned everything or even choose somebody that can support them. But me? i always give my heart it's right to love. I always follow what my heart says but i always put heart behind my mind. It's better to think over it than loving a waste.
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@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Loving someone is an action of the brain rather than the emotions. The heart provides the feelings. Infatuation is purely emotional attraction and usually don't last but a decision to love someone and to care for that someone's well being lasts.
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• India
6 Feb 07
Love is a phenomenon that starts after you have seen the other person or had a talk. This is directed by your brain that is you are thinking. when you constantly think about a person whom you think matches your nature you fall in love. Other condition is many people have a n imaginary image of his or her dream girl or dream boy, which includes everything about the other person and when someone of the same nature comes into your contact you tend to fall in love. In both these case we see it is the thinking which precedes the love.
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Usually Love happens without that barriers.But sometimes,we need to used brain too at the same time!It should be partner brain and heart so you can make not perfect but almost a perfect relationship!
@samraf (725)
• India
1 Feb 07
well this can be said that it is not a one sided answer, your answer can confuse some one i think :) regards,
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• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Love happens without barriers, and it doesent choose who and when to feel love..most of us dont use brains in loving someone, eventhought we knew that he is already married, dont have enough money, not educated etc, but if we feel LOVE we never think of giving up..we take the risk to be with someone we love..if we are with our loveones we fulfill the enjoyment of our life and we are happy..but after those times, if there is problem that arises we repeant it..! that is the problem when it comes to love...
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
6 Feb 07
In love you just have no time to use brain. It just happens through eyes, smiles, fast heartbeats and feelings. It is a quick current which flows through your nerves and you loose conrol of your mind.....all that you can now listen is, what your heart is saying.... You know what.....love is a wonderful feeling, as long as it exists, world is heaven for you......so enjoy this feeling as long as you can.....let the brain take some rest. To think and then love, this statement is invalid in dictionary of real love. Love just happens.....it is not pizza that you think and decide whether to make triagualr or round. ..........lol
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• Philippines
2 Feb 07
Of course,We have to find a right person to us.More people don't use their mind can get a mistake.Love is patient with sucrifice to give happiness for all.The someone inlove,need to think right for his/her goodness.We use our mind to love or find a right person to us.Don't be hurt ourself to get mistake.Love is strong,give more happiness with knowledge.
• India
6 Feb 07
I THINK LOVE IS NOT DONE.IT JUST HAPPENS.LOVE IS A SWEET FEELING WHICH SOMEONE SHOULD EXPERIENCE.ONE CANNOT USE BRAIN TO LOVE.IF SOMEONE USES BRAINS TO LOVE - IT'S NOT TRUE LOVE.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
20 Mar 07
Well, that is just a good question. When I love someone, it is my heart who feels it first before my brain. And when I think why I love this person, it sort of gets in the way. So, I just leave it up to my heart to make it through.
@samraf (725)
• India
21 Mar 07
yeah i think this is the best way to deal with this love thing keep rocking
@sivapnlr (50)
• India
2 Feb 07
No! thinking before love is not at all a love. In my opinion the love relates to sense and heart not weight of the pockets and others.