Why give negative ratings to discussions you don't agree with?

@emisle (3822)
Ireland
February 2, 2007 5:56pm CST
I've seen a few posts by people who have seen their rating drop because they've posted something that people don't agree with. I just think this is stupid, especially when you think that this is what mylot is about - discussions! I would never give someone a negative rating for having a completely different opinion to mine, it's just petty really. And the worst part is that you are rating them the same as others rate the cheaters on here who copy/paste other's discussions and reply with non-sensical answers. I would just like to say to those who rate people negative because they disagree with them - GET A GRIP!
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62 responses
@teenal (1400)
• Dublin, Ireland
3 Feb 07
I give neg ratings but not to topics or responses I disagree with. We are all entitled to our different opinions. I only give them to idiotic one line or one word responses or where the respondant obviously hasnt read the post and posts drivel.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
Same here. I have come across discussions where I think the poster is a bit ignorant with what they're posting, but I don't give negative ratings for that. Instead I let them know how I feel about what they've written.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
3 Feb 07
I think it is wrong to give negative rating for responses which does not agree with your topic. AFter all it is only the opinions people express and they have every right to express what they want (if they are not using abusive language). Thousand people in thousand ways. I in fact thank those who do not agree with my topic for their originality and their different way of thinking.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I also love discussions that provoke different responses, as long as they're not bigoted or go out of their way to be rude and ignorant. I just think some people don't know how to properly construct an argument.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I couldn't agree with you more. Different way of thinking.
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• India
3 Feb 07
Yes,it is wrong to give negative rating to respones which do not agree with your topic.They have an other view on your topic ,it doesn't mean that you should give 'em a negative rating u can do a better thing clarify with them why they disagree with u and u may even find flaws in ur own opinion. but its the other case if the one who disagrees with you does so in an agressive manner like abusing or commenting that you are the one who abused their opinions they have no right to do so and so we can give them a negative rating
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Get a grip. ha ha Your right. It is sad that people will give a negative rating to someone that they do not agree with their opinion! We are here to discuss ideas and such. The idea of many different people coming together as a community is that they will be different. And hopefully, they will also teach others something...like tolerance and fairness. I just hope that these people learn and come to understand that passing out negatives is just plain mean unless the person really deserves it for their rudeness, lack of reading the details of the discussion, or one word answers.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
It's just not fair, and I also hope that they realise that they should only use the neg. rating for people who truly deserve it.
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@Idlewild (6090)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I've also noticed lower ratings for people who are outspoken or have a habit of expressing themselves in a strong way, regardless of their opinions. And people who joke around in their answers also seem to get lower ratings.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I do tend to joke sometimes but not because I want to insult the person, it's just the way I am...I just don't see why people can't respond to that person and tell them that they didn't appreciate whatever they said.
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• United States
3 Feb 07
I never have or ever will do that. I very seldon give a (-) and when I do I post comment saying why. I rate for quality whether they agree or disagree. BTW how do you know which posting has received a (-)?? I don' know of anyway to see that!. I have been guilty of not giving any rating because the posting was pathetic but I feel that the person should not be given a negative when they had really been trying
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I came across 2 posts yesterday where the posters had seen a drop in their ratings after posting discussions. One guy posted a religious discussion and i don't know what the other one posted. I don't see why people can't just reply that they don't agree and leave it at that.
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@minerc (1373)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I do agree, I don't rate people bad when I don't agree with there answer or there response. The only people I have rated negative are the ones who respond I don't know, and the ones who have cut and pasted discussions as well as responses.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
That's what I do too, I've had everything from 'I don't know' to people just typing gibberish on their keyboards.
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• United States
3 Feb 07
I agree with you ..we should be negative on our ratings if we don't like a topic..we should simply skip the topic completely and be nice..Mylot is all about community..and there are lots of different people that make up a community..We don't all have to have the same tastes but we should all respect each other's taste:)|+
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
It's just a lot like the real world! People on here have to 'attack' those whose opinions they don't agree with, if only they could just leave it alone and agree to disagree in a civilised manner.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
10 Feb 07
Hi there Emisle, I have noticed that to and it is not on. If someone disagrees, why rate them down? I still mark a plus, as at the end of the Day, I asked for an Opinion, it did not mean that I want everyone to agree with me. I think some People need to read the Guidelines again very carefully.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
10 Feb 07
I think one of the problems is that people don't read the guidelines to begin with! They just ask other members how to earn and that's that.
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@andy_baex (428)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 07
yup i agree with you why must negative if you can positif rate, if we disagree why you discuss with them because no body perfect in the world, so being agood friend aren't we
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@rosie_123 (6113)
3 Feb 07
I agree with you on this. Sometimes I get annoyed when I read the viewpoints of someone who I do not agree with, but they are as entitled to their opinion as I am, and I would never negative rate someone just for thinking differently from me. After all, it is a free world.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
6 Feb 07
It is indeed a free world, and if no one had the right to free speech it'd be quite boring!
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
4 Feb 07
I rarely do give negative ratings. And I don't do it because I don't agree with them. I am more likely to do it to someone who is offensive. People are entitle to their opinion as long as they keep them for themself. If they want to go around and provoke people with offensive point of views... they need to be prepare for the consequences. If myLot has a feature to give negative ratings... it is because it wants people to use it. You can ask myLot to remove that feature... but you cannot blame the people for using it. Nor can you ask them not to use it.
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@judyt00 (3497)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
You have to admit, though that sometimes some people's statements are so bigotted and biased that they deserve to be given negative ratings. I do give these people negative ratings.And I will continue to do so.
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• China
3 Feb 07
ok i also ok but i feel negative rating is disavantage for us
• China
3 Feb 07
it is ok but negative rating is disadvantage for us my link: http:www.freewebs.com/mylotmoney
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
If someone is attacking another person's point of view and being abusive etc than fair enough, but if someone posts their point of view and they haven't set out to be abusive etc, than that's not ok..
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@lyndaj70 (293)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I try to give positive ratings to posts that really seem to contribute something useful to the topic but so far I have seen no reason to give out a negative to anyone, but I haven't been here very long either. I believe everyone is entitled to their opinion and should be allowed to speak it so long as it is not in a hateful manner.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
10 Feb 07
I also give positive ratings to people who have constructed a good argument and made a quality post.
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• United States
3 Feb 07
as long as they are downright rude, they shouldnt get a negative rating as these are opinions and we each have our own and everyone wont agree on everything!
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I think the only thing we can agree with on here is that everyone will have different opinions!
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
3 Feb 07
i would never give a negative rating to someone who disagreed with me, i think such people are purile. I have given best responses to people who have disagreed with me, I have come accross people who give negative ratings out because they have got upset. GIVING NEGATIVES OUT TO ME IS FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE OFF TOPIC , if they are abusive of the site then report them to mylot, is this really hard to do?
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@Stephanie5 (2946)
• United States
3 Feb 07
WELL SAID!!! I couldn't agree more. That's NOT what those ratings are there for. I hardly ever use (-) unless someone obviously didn't even read what I wrote, or they leave "I don't know" or something like that. I'm in a disagreement with a certain two individuals on here and I don't even mark them (-) even though I should because they have went to all my discussions and marked them negative. My points have dropped from a 94 to an 89 TWICE becuz of these two. I don't do it because that's not what those are there for and even though these people tick me off and I totally disagree with what they say, I still don't mark them negative. People that are abusing our rating systems need to stop being so darn childish and grow up!
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
4 Feb 07
I wish that we could see the users who rated us negatively with an explanation as to why they did it, but I can imagine some people will take revenge so it could get ugly.
@Riptide (2756)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Well the only people I rate - are spammers so I don't know where you get that crap from. You can't tell me you don't rate people that tick you off - . You are too dramatic not to. I'm sure there are more people then the 2 of us that disagree with you, just not everybody feels the need to tell you so openly, they just rather - you instead. Their way of disagreeing with you. So before you point fingers, know what you're talking about.
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@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I have only given a negative rating a few times on here- And that is when someone is totally offensive to me. Anyone can think or believe what they choose- and if it is different than how I think or how I feel- I just voice my opinion. I have had some people actually call me stupid or make deragatory remarks at me personally-- they get negative ratings- There is no need for that! They could just voice their opinions in a nice matter.
@KHyuga (1694)
• Singapore
3 Feb 07
Yes, I only give negative ratings for derogatory remarks and spams as well.
@victorwzj (539)
3 Feb 07
The only reason I give negative rating is the discussion seem like a spam . Those respond that are one line or out of context will also be given negative rating. I personally sick of the spammer or those new comer. They create allot of nonsense discussion just to earn few cent more.
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• Canada
3 Feb 07
I personally think that people give out to many negative ratings.I think the only things the deserve a negative rating are these. Off topic posts, copy / paste posts, posts the are only spam, or when the post is straight out abuse, racist, or one word type answers and meaningless posts / discussions. Giving people a negative rating, simple because you disagree with them, even if the person is a bigot, seems childish to me..
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@ycanteye (778)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I haven't used the rating thing yet because I wasn't sure what it was for. I probably won't give many - ratings because I've seen a lot of good discussions and I guess mostly good comments so for.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
3 Feb 07
I myself reserve negative ratings for 'yes','no','I don't know' answers, or anything which is a waste of space. You should also watch out for people who copy/paste other's answers, I even once had someone who copied part of my discussion and tried to give it back to me in a reply! These people should be reported to mylot.
@Laydee83 (275)
• Atlanta, Georgia
3 Feb 07
I don't believe in copy and pasting unless your taking the questions from a survey or something. But I agree with you. I read a lot of post here and I notice the ratings as well. Trsut me, there are a lot of things I do not agree with that poeple post here. But I give them a good rating because if they can make me disagree and respond to them I think it was a good topic for conversation. Plus that is what we are all here for. Well some of us. Some are here just for the money. Others, for conversation and to view everyone else's opinions.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
6 Feb 07
Some people just can't agree to disagree on here!